Brehs and Ladies Help, I am in a relationship with an emotionally immature woman

[gangreen]

Okay brehs and brehettes,

I have been with this woman for two years. I was 23 and she was 19 years old when we first met. First year was a close relationship and second year was long distance.

I have noticed tendencies in her over the years, that I admit that I have ignored (like throwing tantrums after I talk to her for hours when I say I have to get off the phone or other shyt like that), hoping she will grow out of it. We talk about it, she sees she is wrong sometimes but she constantly does the same thing impulsively without checking herself.

We got into another fight today over me wearing headphones and using speaker while I was talking to her. (I was multitasking, setting up my resume for a job that my cousin has an inside track on this summer and talking to her). She couldn't hear me so I reasonably said that I will call you back after I am done with this since I needed both hands. She hung up on me without saying shyt.

I called her back like twice and she is not returning my calls.

I am flabbergasted with her.

So I look through the internet and I see this shyt.

Problems With an Emotionally Immature Wife | eHow

I am not saying I am perfect but


I am reading through this shyt and I am like and , we ain't married but she literally has all these tendencies. Was I blinded brehs, I don't want this kind of life.

What should I do.
















And No ************* I ain't sharing that girl... I don't need that perpetual answer.

 

[ugksam]

are you fukking stupid? break up with her, problem solved.

you can't change someone, you can't change the messed up way she was raised, dont think you can change her.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

are you fukking stupid? break up with her, problem solved

Yea pretty much this.

Just ask yourself, can you imagine yourself being with her every day for the rest of your life?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

So what you're saying is that you're in a relationship with a woman?

 

[Dooby]

are you fukking stupid? break up with her, problem solved.

you can't change someone, you can't change the messed up way she was raised, tell her you will date her again after she goes through several years of therapy.

Breh u can change a bytch ya gotta have a mouth piece tho...seems u kno nothin about that

 

[Emperor Sol]

Put your foot all kinds of the way down and tell her to stop the bullshyt or kick rocks.

I'm 100% serious. She may not like or appreciate that answer at first, but if you can offer it to her without wavering in confidence she'll be forced to respect it or leave and wallow in her own misery.

When you established that you're not going to put up with it that's when you try to actually communicate. If she can't respect that and decides to leave, you're a better man for it because a bad woman can only bring a good man down. Personally I would break up with her since it's bound to happen again and again, but if you can somehow make it work more power to you.

 

[ugksam]

Breh u can change a bytch ya gotta have a mouth piece tho...seems u kno nothin about that

no actually you can't change anyone, they would have to want to change themselves in order for that to happen. but yeah you fukking lame simp keep saving these bytches.

 

[dj vtg]

no actually you can't change anyone, they would have to want to change themselves in order for that to happen. but yeah you fukking lame simp keep saving these bytches.

you can change a woman... its actually pretty easy if you know what you're doing

 

[LimitedEdition]

Get married breh.

 

[Taadow]

 

[karim]

you can change a woman... its actually pretty easy if you know what you're doing

yes you can, but why would you want that headache? also, two years into the relationship is kind of late, you have to put your foot down right away.

as far as this situation goes, either dump her right away or flip the script on her. don't call her and once she calls, pick up, tell her you're tired of her games and hang up again. initially she will get angry and throw tantrums, but once that real fear of losing you kicks in she will start to behave. only speak to her when her behavior is acceptable, otherwise hang up. you need to make her crawl back to you so she knows it is you who wields the power in your relationship and not her.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

 

[Chris Mauro]

 

[ltheghost]

If she is giving you that much trouble, it's time for you drop the bomb. Next time she wants to argue hang up the phone immediately. You need to understand men are like wine and women are like beer. And if she doesn't understand that fact and the fact that you are trying to grind she needs to shut the fukk up and back the fukk up with the bullshyt. Fellas, some times you just have to check a bytch. The secret to all relationships is that the person who cares the least has the most power. If she is upset, you are happy. Laugh at her. And start talking about some other shyt. fukk her feelings. It's not about her. Its about you. If you start thinking like this she will come around if not, there are a million other immature women out there. Don't save'em if they don't wanna be saved.

 

[luckyse7enz]