Brehettes :Whats make things boring in a relationship

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Lady i know y all love mystery , competition and all
Lets say you are in a relationship with your bf and got bored

Whats usually make things boring and make you things about gettin a new partner or some new dikk

I only got this answer and y all tell me if its true or nt

I think when your men doesnt talk or flirt with other girl its make the relationship boring cuz y all know he got nobody but you


Add some other reason

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what bores me? when theres no more effort being put in... i know relationships usually fall into a comfortable pattern but i still wanna do date nights and cute shyt like that.

I think when your men doesnt talk or flirt with other girl its make the relationship boring cuz y all know he got nobody but you
i dont agree with this. i like security and i dont like having my feelings played with. if i knew my man was flirting w/ other women i'd leave.
 

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what bores me? when theres no more effort being put in... i know relationships usually fall into a comfortable pattern but i still wanna do date nights and cute shyt like that.


i dont agree with this. i like security and i dont like having my feelings played with. if i knew my man was flirting w/ other women i'd leave.

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lack of good conversation, no common friends, not doing anything fun outside of the house. it's just like a friendship - if you met someone who lacked all these things you probably think they are boring and won't make an effort to kick it with them. Same goes for relationship, the only thing different is sex. and if it's just about sex then might as well just be fukk buddies.


"i know y all love mystery , competition and all ...I think when your men doesnt talk or flirt with other girl its make the relationship boring cuz y all know he got nobody but you "​

this is the weirdest shyt i ever read, no offense lol. it's not about other people, it's about us bro.
 
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People in general are boring and shouldn't expect their spouses to be some form of entertainment. If you're normally sitting around looking dumb on Friday night, a spouse only makes it so y'all look dumb together. Of course this is different from anti-social people that don't like to do anything or go anywhere, but for the most part it's not all that exciting and I don't expect it to be.
 
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I’ve met a few ladies lately who said they broke up with their man because he was boring.

Makes you think if they would last in a marriage :patrice: because marriage gets more boring the longer it lasts.
I guess that's why people would often have kids when they get married then
 

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You have to be able to entertain yourself before getting in a relationship. Relationship shouldn't be crazy boring, but you shouldn't expect someone else to keep you entertain. What you were doing as a hobby or past time before should still keep you entertained once you are in a relationship.
 

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My boyfriend is always up to something it seems. And he has a good understanding of push and pull, going hot then cold. It's an interesting dynamic. He'll lay on the affection and attention and as soon as it starts getting on my nerves he pulls away and I do the same to him.

The conversation is great, though it is not required 24-7.

Hes also the kind of dude that'll walk into a room and just jump into a convo, asking questions I'm not prepared for because some idea popped into his head. Last night I was just chilling and he walks into my place asking me how do I feel about snakes, didn't pause for an answer, just kept going. Even if it's something I know I just let him ramble on.
 
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