Brehettes how do you feel about a man unaware of his attractiveness?

[Shadow King]

Between a men gauging their "level" fairly early due to experience (rejection/success), and women seeming to believe all (desireable) men have player rotations, when you come across a dude who isn't aware or doesn't carry himself like he's aware of his good looks (let's say whatever you consider an 8-9 physically), what is your opinion on him?

Is it a refreshing thing in comparison to other men? Is it unbecoming and a turn-off?
Where is the line drawn between modesty/humility and low self-esteem and confidence from him?
In the dating or pre-dating stage, do you put a little more effort into hinting your receptiveness?
Do you assume he's lying and is perfectly aware of his powers?

 

[monsterpreneur]

Between a men gauging their "level" fairly early due to experience (rejection/success), and women seeming to believe all (desireable) men have player rotations, when you come across a dude who isn't aware or doesn't carry himself like he's aware of his good looks (let's say whatever you consider an 8-9 physically), what is your opinion on him?

Is it a refreshing thing in comparison to other men? Is it unbecoming and a turn-off?
Where is the line drawn between modesty/humility and low self-esteem and confidence from him?
In the dating or pre-dating stage, do you put a little more effort into hinting your receptiveness?
Do you assume he's lying and is perfectly aware of his powers?

Ive come across many men like this. I guess it’s better than the overly cocky attractive man or the delusional non-attractive man. They tend to be the sweetest guys too. I remember having this conversation with many of my friends.

 

[Poitier]

Those men are easier to manipulate so of course they love it.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Those men are easier to manipulate so of course they love it.

 

[Shadow King]

Ive come across many men like this. I guess it’s better than the overly cocky attractive man or the delusional non-attractive man. They tend to be the sweetest guys too. I remember having this conversation with many of my friends.

So you tend to believe them? And male or female friends?

Those men are easier to manipulate so of course they love it.

They don't necessarily have to think they're ugly breh...

 

[monsterpreneur]

So you tend to believe them? And male or female friends?

They don't necessarily have to think they're ugly breh...

Do I tend to believe the men? Is that what your asking?

Female friends

 

[Shadow King]

Do I tend to believe the men? Is that what your asking?

Female friends

Yes. And how do your friends feel?

 

[monsterpreneur]

Yes. And how do your friends feel?

Yes I guess I believe the men. They feel the same as I do. I think most people like confidence. Arrogance is a strong turn off.

 

[Yo Mama]

I have never met a beautiful man unaware of his beauty. He might not care about it, but he is definately aware of it.


My current 2nd husband:
Some women stare at him, in front of me. A lot ask me if hes my brother and they look at me hopefully lol.

Most women I know seem to have managed to work in that he is goodlooking in a conversation with me at least once.

Men compliment him, and I notice a lot of men think he is "soft" till yjey get to know him.

And he actually looks 10+ years younger.
He grew a fukking beared and became more buff to tey to look older.

Is he aware of his looks? I think yes, does he actively try to use his "powers"? I dont know, I dont think so.

I wasnt.immediately receptive to him simply coz he was fine. I fell for him coz i thought he was a nice guy. Then i found out he is "only human". But human failing in a hot package is somehow.more bearable to me. Yes I'm shallow.

 

[Shadow King]

I have never met a beautiful man unaware of his beauty. He might not care about it, but he is definately aware of it.


My current 2nd husband:
Some women stare at him, in front of me. A lot ask me if hes my brother and they look at me hopefully lol.

Most women I know seem to have managed to work in that he is goodlooking in a conversation with me at least once.

Men compliment him, and I notice a lot of men think he is "soft" till yjey get to know him.

And he actually looks 10+ years younger.
He grew a fukking beared and became more buff to tey to look older.

Is he aware of his looks? I think yes, does he actively try to use his "powers"? I dont know, I dont think so.

I wasnt.immediately receptive to him simply coz he was fine. I fell for him coz i thought he was a nice guy. Then i found out he is "only human". But human failing in a hot package is somehow.more bearable to me. Yes I'm shallow.

Do you think it's not possible to for us to be unaware since we have to put ourselves out there?

 

[Yo Mama]

Do you think it's not possible to for us to be unaware since we have to put ourselves out there?

Being a handsome man doesnt automatically make you smart, confident or predatory

So yeah, he might be aware tgat he is not ugly, but not know or care about how to exploit that noy uglyness.

 

[LordOfTheManor]

I have never met a beautiful man unaware of his beauty. He might not care about it, but he is definately aware of it.


I wasnt.immediately receptive to him simply coz he was fine. I fell for him coz i thought he was a nice guy. Then i found out he is "only human". But human failing in a hot package is somehow.more bearable to me. Yes I'm shallow.

What do you mean by not receptive? Did you ignore him when he tried to holla? Obviously, you couldn't have rejected him too harshly if he kept trying?

And why? Did you subconsciously feel like you didn't deserve his attention? Did you think he would be feeling himself too much? What did he do for you to change your mind?

Thanks.

 

[Yo Mama]

What do you mean by not receptive? Did you ignore him when he tried to holla? Obviously, you couldn't have rejected him too harshly if he kept trying?

And why? Did you subconsciously feel like you didn't deserve his attention? Did you think he would be feeling himself too much? What did he do for you to change your mind?

Thanks.

No. I thought he was 19/20 years old and a whore.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Those men are easier to manipulate so of course they love it.

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[AquaCityBoy]

There is no such thing.

It's in a man's nature to overrate his own attractiveness. If he thinks he's ugly, he probably is unless he has something he can fix (like weight or grooming).