Brehette learns what brehs have known all along.

Scustin Bieburr

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People for whatever reason accept narcissist and manipulative behavior.

The woman she was dating was an emotional manipulator and by calling the stud a narcissist she's literally trying to gaslight and make her think she's the villain by setting boundaries and being consistent.

The irony is that these women ENJOY the tension. They find agreeable simps who will follow their lead disgusting because there's no validation that they get when they manipulate someone to do something they don't want to do. Starting something petty, making the person argue, then using shame, guilt and gaslighting to make the wronged party apologize is a way of exerting power and control in the relationship.

Those kinds of women typically have no hobbies and they get a thrill from these mind games.

The problem is that men take it at face value that this kind of mentally ill abuser is what women are by default, and women take it for granted that the controlling emotionally unstable man is the default man. Hence the "nggas ain't shyt" discourse as opposed to the "why can't I catch the red flags?" Self reflection.

People don't want to be introspective. Men don't want to admit that they let a woman disrespect and manipulate them because they were desperate for companionship. Women don't want to admit that they aren't picking better either.

So both assume it's the gender as a whole that's the problem while absolving themselves of accountability and conveniently ignoring all the couples that communicate with each other with mutual respect and clarity.
 
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