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Long story short I been dating this chick for about 4 months. She she been giving up the goods no real problems. (but their have been signs of trouble to come).

I guess she started going to church around the beginning of this year and taking Baptism classes. Well the Baptism is coming up in a week or so and she made a big deal about me being there for her.

I :yeshrug: said aight even though I'm agnostic pretty much atheist.
Well yesterday we were supposed to go out and i pick her up in the car she hits me with the. :birdman:

"My pastor said I have to give up sex until marriage". :lawd:

She asked me if I would you ever date some one without having sex til marriage? I straight up said NO. :scusthov: Sex is a big component of a relationship.

She once again hit me with the :birdman: "Well I'm disappointed in you. I need to go home and think. I'll talk to you tomorrow".

How would you brehs handle this?

shyt! move this to LTR
 

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Well...

Do you believe she will actually give up sex? 100% of the "celibate" women I used to know would drop the panties if the right dude came along. And by the right dude, I mean a guy who she hadn't fukked yet.
 

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you have nothing to worry about. she knows what it feels like. she isnt going to stick with celibacy. that can work on some virgins because they dont know what they're missing, but this girl has a sex drive.

and 4 months is not long enough for her to be making serious demands.
 

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Well...

Do you believe she will actually give up sex? 100% of the "celibate" women I used to know would drop the panties if the right dude came along. And by the right dude, I mean a guy who she hadn't fukked yet.

Nah I know she going through with that and she already dorpped the drawers, but I also know how far religious lunacy can go.
you have nothing to worry about. she knows what it feels like. she isnt going to stick with celibacy. that can work on some virgins because they dont know what they're missing, but this girl has a sex drive.

and 4 months is not long enough for her to be making serious demands.

I definitely feel she is trying to make a demand for a ring or some sort of permanent commitment which is all I need know to charge her and move on.
First time dealing with this born again nonsense.
 

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dont be unequally yoked, i'm sorry breh. I'm a christian myself and I cut out sex before marriage when I got saved. Your best bet is to just walk away now and find a woman who has the same mindset as you.
 

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if she truly believes that she needs to give up sex before marriage because of her religious believes and you dont agree with that then you 2 are clearly not meant for each other

let her move on to someone who will support that

that fact that she's religious to the point where she's getting baptized as an adult and you refer to yourself as "pretty much atheist" means you 2 aren't compatible

go move on to someone who doesnt believe in waiting till marriage which wont be hard at all
 

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Thanks brehs that's the conclusion I came to as well. It wasn't like that at the beginning, but this is her new path. Word to Raincar. Time to move on.
 

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respect her bruh....the hoes I'm slaying out here I will never marry :scusthov:

At least you have one who is willing to change her ways
 

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I share that girl.

w/ Jesus
 
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