UpAndComing
Veteran
Growing up I would see guys (myself included) be so hyped up on tryna get in a girl's pants. It would be either being puzzy whipped or giving ultimatums 
I realized both ways were mad stressful on a nikka
Then I realized you gotta focus on the PROCESS, not the end result. Focus on getting to know her, and the rest would seem so much easier. And focusing on getting to know. The irony is you'll achieve the end result more by not caring so much
I'm the romantic type. When texting, calling a girl, I focus on THE ACTUAL date, not what MIGHT happen at the end of the date. I tell the girl the romantic shyt thats gonna happen on the date, I focus on the activity and how much fun we gonna have
In a girl's mind she thinking "How come this guy aint focusing on how fat my ass is?
. How come he's not dropping obvious retarded hints of how much stamina he has in the bedroom? 
"
But don't get me wrong, I am hands on when on a date, I'm a touchy feely type too
But I never initiate anything, cause trust, you'll know when a girl wants to take shyt further
Having more focus on the date instead of getting some would make a girl fall in love with your patience. You give off the energy like:
Hey if I get puzzy or not, I can care less
Do the opposite of what Simp nikkas do
The opposite of desire is not hate, it's indifference
I realized both ways were mad stressful on a nikka
Then I realized you gotta focus on the PROCESS, not the end result. Focus on getting to know her, and the rest would seem so much easier. And focusing on getting to know. The irony is you'll achieve the end result more by not caring so much
I'm the romantic type. When texting, calling a girl, I focus on THE ACTUAL date, not what MIGHT happen at the end of the date. I tell the girl the romantic shyt thats gonna happen on the date, I focus on the activity and how much fun we gonna have
In a girl's mind she thinking "How come this guy aint focusing on how fat my ass is?
. How come he's not dropping obvious retarded hints of how much stamina he has in the bedroom? "But don't get me wrong, I am hands on when on a date, I'm a touchy feely type too
But I never initiate anything, cause trust, you'll know when a girl wants to take shyt further
Having more focus on the date instead of getting some would make a girl fall in love with your patience. You give off the energy like:
Hey if I get puzzy or not, I can care less
Do the opposite of what Simp nikkas do
The opposite of desire is not hate, it's indifference
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