You know you aint shyt, right? You know everyone around you, who isn't also a deadbeat, says you aint shyt behind your back, right? Probably noone but your baby mother has told you directly that you aint shyt cause people tend to mind their business, but they know you aint shyt. Go ahead and ask them their honest opinion of you. I bet they'll finally summon the courage to tell you that indeed, you aint shyt.