Arguments: Is there a magic number or magic frequency that proves they don't love you anymore?

[concise]

Simply put - how many arguments does it take for proof that someone doesn't love you anymore?

How many arguments or how often do you have to argue to realize you don't love your significant other? Your mother/father? Your sister/brother? Others?

 

[Danny Up]

Zero. But IMO, if you are arguing with someone you probably care. Otherwise there would be nothing to argue about.

 

[Non Sequitur]

I'm not saying you need to have a heated argument everyday, but disagreements are natural in any relationship. When they don't care enough to argue with you, its a bad sign...

 

[itsyoung!!]

Zero. But IMO, if you are arguing with someone you probably care. Otherwise there would be nothing to argue about.

not true at all.. people make up arguments either through their own guilt or they want to end a relationship and arguing only helps the break up

not only that, some people truly just love drama

 

[Remote]

There are no set number of arguments that tell you a woman doesn't love you.

Couples argue.
The wisdom comes in understanding that not every argument needs to blow up into a huge fight.
And not every little comment needs to be made into an argument.

I don't think couples that last together for decades fight that much less.
I just think...they say their piece, take some time apart to cool off, and then they're good.

...I don't know if any of that is true.
I'm not in a relationship right now. But that's how I'll try to approach things given how hot-headed I've been in past relationships.

 

[Raye82]

I don't believe in numbers, but I do believe in time span. What I mean is, an argument every now and then is normal. For example, you and your partner may have an argument like once a month. However, when you are arguing all the time, like everyday, then their is a problem. You are not compatible with that person. If your times of arguments outweigh your times of calmness/happiness, you need to move on. Drama does not equal love.

 

[concise]

You guys plan on ignoring the family and friends part of my question?

 

[ThaRealness]

You guys plan on ignoring the family and friends part of my question?

I think its a more interesting question if you're talking about friends, as friendships stem from having a similar outlook on life. The day me and my homies can't light one up, and make fun of all the bullshyt around us is the day that were going our separate ways

 

[concise]

I'm not saying you need to have a heated argument everyday, but disagreements are natural in any relationship. When they don't care enough to argue with you, its a bad sign...

There are no set number of arguments that tell you a woman doesn't love you.

Couples argue.
The wisdom comes in understanding that not every argument needs to blow up into a huge fight.
And not every little comment needs to be made into an argument.

I don't think couples that last together for decades fight that much less.
I just think...they say their piece, take some time apart to cool off, and then they're good.

...I don't know if any of that is true.
I'm not in a relationship right now. But that's how I'll try to approach things given how hot-headed I've been in past relationships.

I don't believe in numbers, but I do believe in time span. What I mean is, an argument every now and then is normal. For example, you and your partner may have an argument like once a month. However, when you are arguing all the time, like everyday, then their is a problem. You are not compatible with that person. If your times of arguments outweigh your times of calmness/happiness, you need to move on. Drama does not equal love.

So how often is too often to argue with blood relatives?
How often is too often with friends?

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

74. The answer is 74...

 

[Raye82]

So how often is too often to argue with blood relatives?
How often is too often with friends?

I think the same applies to blood relatives and friends. You may give them more leeway because you are not trying to build with them, you know, create a family with them later down the line. If a friend or blood relative is constantly arguing with you (I'm talking about heated arguments, not whether the heat is better than the lakers) and doesn't know how to agree to disagree, then you need to limit your time with them. However, those you are in a romantic relationship with, you either have to cut them off or put them in the friend zone with limited time. You should never try to build something with a person that you can not get along with, its a recipe for disaster.