Are younger women as accepting of cheating as older women?

[El_Mero_Mero]

To sum it up:

I may go back to school soon and I'll be surrounded by a whole bunch of sexy 18-21 year old girls. I'm almost in my late 20s, though I look younger than that (especially with a fresh haircut). Anyway, I've been in a relationship with a girl for some serious time now, but she's currently living overseas and, at the earliest, I won't see her until the semester is already over. Yes, I know, I share that girl, blah, blah, blah, and while it may be true, that ain't the topic here.

Anyway, should I just tell these young chicks from jump "I got a girl, but she's far away overseas so there's nothing more to talk about" OR should I only bring it up when I'm asked (I think girls always ask that "do you have a girl? question though).

I can see me being upfront with an older girl and she'll be understanding of the situation and appreciating that I didn't lie, but, will a younger chick just stop giving me play if I tell her about my girl's existence on the 1st day?

 

[No_bammer_weed]

To sum it up:

I may go back to school soon and I'll be surrounded by a whole bunch of sexy 18-21 year old girls. I'm almost in my late 20s, though I look younger than that (especially with a fresh haircut). Anyway, I've been in a relationship with a girl for some serious time now, but she's currently living overseas and, at the earliest, I won't see her until the semester is already over. Yes, I know, I share that girl, blah, blah, blah, and while it may be true, that ain't the topic here.

Anyway, should I just tell these young chicks from jump "I got a girl, but she's far away overseas so there's nothing more to talk about" OR should I only bring it up when I'm asked (I think girls always ask that "do you have a girl? question though).

I can see me being upfront with an older girl and she'll be understanding of the situation and appreciating that I didn't lie, but, will a younger chick just stop giving me play if I tell her about my girl's existence on the 1st day?

I love these one-size-fits-all-questions as if everyone shares the same personality and brain...anyway, from personal experience, a chick is cool w/ being a sidepiece/jumpoff in the beginning, but she wont be good with that arraignment once she starts becoming attached. If she really likes you, she's going to start to get "ideas".

I dont get it tho --- if you are willing to cheat on your girl and violate the trust of the relationship, why dont you just lie about being in a relationship to whomever you meet? Why dip your toe half way in --- just dive in if you 'bout it, nicca.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i don't think age really matters so much, it's more about what point they're at in their life. i think if you do tell those girls you have a girlfriend, they won't really mind because they're in college and that's pretty much when people are the most exploratory anyways. at least based on my experiences. having a girlfriend increased the amount of play i got when i was in college. even if i was just dating a girl some other girls would still try to get at me. especially if you're nonchalant about it. thing was, i was upfront about what i was doing. at that point, they're the ones that have to make a decision because you're pretty much admitting you're gonna take what's been given to you but on the flipside you're asking them are they willing to be placed in the position just for a chance to fukk. however, i never cheated on my girlfriend. but, if i was just dating a girl, i would step out on them...

 

[Coco Loco]

Sure if you have money or some other incentive to make her put up with the fact that she's sharing you. Not too many women are willing to share unless you are offering something or they're just freelancing p_ssy. I agree with the other person who said it could bite you in the ass later.

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

I guess I don't wanna dip the toes all the way in, because these newer younger chicks will find out if I lied to them and then all the drama and bad press about me starts, and in this digital age, that'll eventually reach my girl in Asia. I figure that if I'm upfront with them, there is less a chance that they're gonna wanna do me harm.

As far as them becoming attached, I gotta figure out how to give them that "good d" without them becoming attached. Only thing that comes to mind is placing rules on myself (i.e. only see them x-amount of times), or just inviting her to some big party and sickin' the most irresistible player dude on her, so that she no longer has that need for me.

 

[Brock Landers]

Depends on the caliber of woman, hoes age just like anybody else

 

[MadameMoreaux]

Dudes complain about women cheating on this forum so much, but yall turn around and do the same vile shyt. If you think "you're sharing that girl" already, well thats even more incentive to break up with such an untrustworthy individual. Pot meet kettle. Hope she doesn't burn you.


and if you're fooling around with a woman who is OK with you cheating on her.. her morals and values aren't up to par.This is the same type of woman who will become possessive and insane. She will try to trap you, she will treat you like trash, she won't value you as a person. She will demand respect but not give it. She will emasculate you. Just throwin it out there..

 

[Coco Loco]

I guess I don't wanna dip the toes all the way in, because these newer younger chicks will find out if I lied to them and then all the drama and bad press about me starts, and in this digital age, that'll eventually reach my girl in Asia. I figure that if I'm upfront with them, there is less a chance that they're gonna wanna do me harm.

As far as them becoming attached, I gotta figure out how to give them that "good d" without them becoming attached. Only thing that comes to mind is placing rules on myself (i.e. only see them x-amount of times), or just inviting her to some big party and sickin' the most irresistible player dude on her, so that she no longer has that need for me.

There's no need to lie just be straight up with them. All you have to say is you have a woman and you aren't looking for anything serious. If you don't want the drama then don't lie. Lying and scheming create that unwanted drama. Most women probably won't want that situation but some will it depends on what she's looking for and what she will allow.
You can't stop someone from falling for you/ being attracted to you. If you are telling them straight up nothing can come from this and they want more that's on them because you told them what it was in the beginning. Whatever you do just don't lie and play with people's emotions, shyt is lame and never ends well.

 

[killacal]

Dudes complain about women cheating on this forum so much, but yall turn around and do the same vile shyt. If you think "you're sharing that girl" already, well thats even more incentive to break up with such an untrustworthy individual. Pot meet kettle. Hope she doesn't burn you.


and if you're fooling around with a woman who is OK with you cheating on her.. her morals and values aren't up to par.This is the same type of woman who will become possessive and insane. She will try to trap you, she will treat you like trash, she won't value you as a person. She will demand respect but not give it. She will emasculate you. Just throwin it out there..

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

that was a good line, though...props.

Ain't no chick that I'm with emasculating me. I'm Latino

I was using an example. I don't really share my girl. I was just saying it before the other posters did.

 

[Malik]

Dudes complain about women cheating on this forum so much, but yall turn around and do the same vile shyt. If you think "you're sharing that girl" already, well thats even more incentive to break up with such an untrustworthy individual. Pot meet kettle. Hope she doesn't burn you.


and if you're fooling around with a woman who is OK with you cheating on her.. her morals and values aren't up to par.This is the same type of woman who will become possessive and insane. She will try to trap you, she will treat you like trash, she won't value you as a person. She will demand respect but not give it. She will emasculate you. Just throwin it out there..

Pots and Kettles cook over flames. And are therefore, burned


If you touch a hot kettle, you'll get burned. Therefore, if you decide to "touch" her, she might take you through some drama you could've avoided.



She could have herpes and actually "burn" you.


Triple Entendre flow right there

 

[Seea]

You could always break up with her and not cheat.

 

[El_Mero_Mero]

If you had a man of like 5 years, would you want him to break up with you just to avoid "cheating"?

 

[MadameMoreaux]

If you had a man of like 5 years, would you want him to break up with you just to avoid "cheating"?

absolutely. If he feels the need to cheat, the relationship is already
You can't build a relationship when there's no trust. Because i'm definitely not engaging in unprotected sex with a man I suspect is cheating on me.
..But we're at different life stages. I'm well into married life. It sounds like you're still young and exploring your options. I'll just refer to the golden rule; treat others how you would like to be treated.