I'm handsome so i'm confident but am i truly confident? If my looks were robbed from me, i might turn into a Black feminist or something
Another handsome breh here. I've wondered this my whole life. Like would I still get mad bytches if I was just average looking. In college, I decided to put this to the test. So basically I just stopped grooming for like a month and a half and totally fukk up my appearance. What I learned is that in fact, looks
do matter. I could still get bytches, but not nearly with the same ease nor quality of bytches.
But the cool thing that happened? My
confidence skyrocketed. Because before that, I wouldn't leave the house w/o looking fresh. It was just part of my identity; something I
thought made me confident but nah it was just armor. Once I got used to looking kinda bummy, there was this massive weight off my shoulders. I stopped walking around waiting for bytches to notice me and shyt. I was able to just
be out without having to overthink every interaction I was going to have because in the moment, I was just an average dude. The thing people don't understand about #HandsomeGang is that in every interaction we have with a woman, we're either expected to make a move on them, or they are plotting to make a move on us. Maybe not
every interaction, but it's a constant thing; and sometimes a breh really is just asking for directions and shyt. And while it may sound like a blessing to incels, it pretty much pigeonholes the kinds of interactions you can have with people. So I say all of that to say that by intentionally fukking up my looks for a little while, I learned that not giving a fukk is a super power, and that right there is
true confidence.
So that was a cool thing, and now once a year I do the same thing to stay grounded. Also, it's cool to walk stress-free among the crowds as a normal-looking dude. Even Superman doesn't wanna be Superman 24/7.