Are men really praised for having multiple women?

[MikeOck]

I always see this shyt in the media and in debates but I don't experience it in my own life. Any time I've come out with my player tales in real life, my boys are always on some

Then shortly one of the girls I'm smashing somehow gets told by "someone" that I've been getting around, meaning that my boys heard my story and ran to the girl talking that you should let me love you bullshyt.

Nowadays I'm relegated to keeping my game to myself or never mentioning names when I feel the need to tell my boys about women. What's your experience? Do your boys really big you up for getting around?

 

[Software]

Yes but you shouldn't never have multiple women for the sake of being praised for bein a mack.

It's something you do for you. clout chasing is the number one cause of a person's downfall in 2018.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Depends on the context...a lot of my brehs legit not respecting you for being on some lying to get p*ssy type shyt, and that's usually what most of us average brehs gotta do. Now if you can make the understanding clear that you not tied down, then you good. But usually you got to have some type of leverage to get that type of power, like being really good looking to women or financially secure.

Its strange with women though. They like the idea that the dude they want COULD have multiple women, but won't like it if he actually does. But its like a chicken and the egg situation...if you figure he can get a bunch of hoes, why should what you bring him stop him from doing just that?


In your specfic situation tho OP, sound like one of your boys trying to dirty mack. That unfortunately happens too common.

 

[Dwolf]

 

[International Playa]

Never tell people when you got a roster in real life. Haters who are jealous of you will tell one of the girls

One of the best playa I have known was a co-worker of mine, lived with his baby mama & still had a woman on the side. He lived the double life for nearly 2 years.He got caught becuz a hating ass dude snitched on him. He got both women pregnant at the same time lol

 

[FeverPitch2]

Only broads say this shyt.
But its just them projecting
They dont want a nikka that dont get hoes. They absolutely do not.
If they pull a nikka that gets hoes, it pumps up their ego because it means they won over other broads.
Brehs might give you a little props for getting hoes but that quickly turns into hate and nikkas tryin hella hard to scoop your hoes behind your back.
Brehs will throw mad dirt on your name to a chick to GTD out of sucka ass jealousy.
NOTHING brings out the true character of a dude more than when decent chicks come around.
So the short answer is no.

 

[International Playa]

Only broads say this shyt.
But its just them projecting
They dont want a nikka that dont get hoes. They absolutely do not.
If they pull a nikka that gets hoes, it pumps up their ego because it means they won over other broads.
Brehs might give you a little props for getting hoes but that quickly turns into hate and nikkas tryin hella hard to scoop your hoes behind your back.
Brehs will throw mad dirt on your name to a chick to GTD out of sucka ass jealousy.
NOTHING brings out the true character of a dude more than when decent chicks come around.
So the short answer is no.

Men too tho. No one wants a woman who isn't desired by anyone else. Every Breh wants a woman who desired by many but only chose you.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Men too tho. No one wants a woman who isn't desired by anyone else. Every Breh wants a woman who desired by many but only chose you.

but are you secure enough to be with a woman who is desired by many men?

 

[Bumblebreh]

Never tell people when you got a roster in real life. Haters who are jealous of you will tell one of the girls

One of the best playa I have known was a co-worker of mine, lived with his baby mama & still had a woman on the side. He lived the double life for nearly 2 years.He got caught becuz a hating ass dude snitched on him. He got both women pregnant at the same time lol

breh that is fukked on so many levels.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Men too tho. No one wants a woman who isn't desired by anyone else. Every Breh wants a woman who desired by many but only chose you.

I think it's more like we want a woman that we find attractive but somehow isn't desired by other men.... which is delusional.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Its implicitly frowned on but encouraged thru ppls actions

 

[010101]

keep your private affairs private*

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Depends on the context...a lot of my brehs legit not respecting you for being on some lying to get p*ssy type shyt, and that's usually what most of us average brehs gotta do. Now if you can make the understanding clear that you not tied down, then you good. But usually you got to have some type of leverage to get that type of power, like being really good looking to women or financially secure.

Its strange with women though. They like the idea that the dude they want COULD have multiple women, but won't like it if he actually does. But its like a chicken and the egg situation...if you figure he can get a bunch of hoes, why should what you bring him stop him from doing just that?


In your specfic situation tho OP, sound like one of your boys trying to dirty mack. That unfortunately happens too common.

this..

It's the 80/20 rule and women want to be CHOSEN at the end of the day. They like the fact that other women might want their man but he only has eyes for them.

Hell Some women would rather be the side chick to a "baller" than be the main of a regular square nikka. Lmao

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Depends on the context...a lot of my brehs legit not respecting you for being on some lying to get p*ssy type shyt, and that's usually what most of us average brehs gotta do. Now if you can make the understanding clear that you not tied down, then you good. But usually you got to have some type of leverage to get that type of power, like being really good looking to women or financially secure.

Its strange with women though. They like the idea that the dude they want COULD have multiple women, but won't like it if he actually does. But its like a chicken and the egg situation...if you figure he can get a bunch of hoes, why should what you bring him stop him from doing just that?


In your specfic situation tho OP, sound like one of your boys trying to dirty mack. That unfortunately happens too common.

exactly this

its crazy how it usually men doing the most talking about another mans exploits

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I think it's more like we want a woman that we find attractive but somehow isn't desired by other men.... which is delusional.

true...i agree it makes no sense

i ALWAYS assume every woman i meet has 4-5 nikkas in orbit around here at anytime and behave accordingly