its kind of a red flag to me when a girl I like smokes a lot of weed. i'm not talking about once in a while here, i'm talking regularly, daily even (like me). most stoner chicks I know are usually pretty sloppy and forgetful and always late for everything. A lot of them have guy tendencies too which is an even bigger turnoff. the best girlfriend I ever had outright refused to smoke weed. she wasn't some complete uptight c*nt or anything, it just never interested her. its funny because all of my friends smoke, and most of her friends smoke, so she'd hang out with a bunch of stoners but never felt peer-pressured into trying it and didn't look down on us for doing it around her. she just seemed kind of amused being around all these high people..