any brehs 30 and up feel more at peace and more accepting about life?

[DrX]

I wonder if this is a universal feeling. as u get older u start to really accept things for what they are and make peace with it. I'm personally in a very calm place. I'm alot happier and have a sense of peace with my self, god and life.

I wonder if its because of age. I feel like I'm in a good place. I know myself and I'm learning to love myself instead of constantly beating myself up because of the things I haven't accomplished in life.

I wake up happy just to see a new day. I don't take my time for granted anymore because I know death can be hear.

I think being bitter, angry and selfish at bad qualities to have. I'm trying to trust again and be less judgmental. I'll admit I'm totally an egomaniac and big time narcissist and trying to kill my ego and humble myself. Hopefully in that day ill find love. My soulmate

I digress. I feel feel really peaceful. Not in a hurry, just living day by day, working towards my goal. But I'm patient and not so eager to have things anymore. When it comes, it comes.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

You're just accepting your disappointing life. Would say it happens to everyone, but it doesn't.

 

[BroolStories]

Sounds like you're accepting your fate.

 

[DrX]

You're just accepting your disappointing life. Would say it happens to everyone, but it doesn't.

ouch...yall sure down take days off do u lol

 

[DrX]

Sounds like you're accepting your fate.

not really, i still work towards my goals

 

[George's Dilemma]

Not hating, but how are you at peace when you just came back from the Bushes after going crazy on here not too long ago? You might be a peace today, but I ain't convinced you're at peace with things.

 

[Marci-Senpai]

Drx u look like a cool dude but ill be honest and say that i have never read any of your OP they are too long and winded...keep it short and simple or break it up into multiple posts if u wanna reach everyone bruh

 

[Weaver31]

Yeah....I used to have low confidence and self-esteem and wish I was super handsome...but living life...u learn that there are others who wish they could be in ur place. I also accepted that the world and society is fuked up in quite a few ways. Issues like race relations, white supremacy, poverty, crime, killings, police brutality, and many others make the world messed up but there aint nothing I can do about it. It is what is is and everybody aint dealt with the same hand of cards.

And ur right...u cant be bitter, angry, or depressed about ur situation, or shyt like why u not where u wanna be in life...because that exudes negative energy. All u can do is try to improve ur situation and grow as a person.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Man, I was gonna come in here and leave something supportive and mature but I forgot this was the Coli so i'll go with the wave and just say...




" FOH, breh. Get your ole encyclopedia thread ass outa here "

 

[JAY?]

Nah
Life is more stressful
Got more kids
More bills
Not being stable at 34 is a lot harder than not being stable at 24

 

[King Poetic]

Nah
Life is more stressful
Got more kids
More bills
Not being stable at 34 is a lot harder than not being stable at 24

Cs to the fullest

When u have your parents who need taken care of

Dealing with bill after bill even when u feel u caught up, something else arises

Plus im helping my niece through college

Bullshyt with work..

THEN U ADD THE FACT YOUR BLACK AND DON'T COME FROM A RICH/WEALTHY FAMILY U JUST HOPE TO MAKE IT EVERYDAY..

P.S.. U ASKING THE WRONG BOARD BECAUSE ALL THESE nikkaS WANT TO SAY THEY LIVING LIKE PUFFY AND ATTENDING YOGA CLASS 3 TIMES A WEEK

 

[Unknown Poster]

Nah
Life is more stressful
Got more kids
More bills
Not being stable at 34 is a lot harder than not being stable at 24

Agreed.
Life is more stressful in your 30s.

Been working everyday
Keeping the bills paid, rent paid, paying off car insurance, health insurance, medical bills, dental, vision, etc.
Then I have to think about my own business
And keeping my finances intact...

I don't have kids and don't plan on having any so that keeps my expenses low.

 

[Jesus Is Lord]

I agree, life got better for me as I aged. The wisdom and understanding that I've picked up over the years allows me to be at ease, and see things for what they are and not what I want them to be. This mode works better when you have a clear cut plan of how you want to live, living intentional helps in this area.

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

I'm more patient than I used to be, but I'm not quite at peace with myself.

I think it's fair to say that most men don't fully mature until their 30s.

 

[Address_Unknown]

I'm more patient than I used to be, but I'm not quite at peace with myself.

I think it's fair to say that most men don't fully mature until their 30s.

:AU_BC: I guess prayer does work.