Another man gives your woman a flower and she tells you about it...

How would you react?

  • Strongly let her know that gifts from other men should go in the trash

    Votes: 15 53.6%

  • Unfazed

    Votes: 13 46.4%
  • Total voters
    28
BelieveBeOK

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Now clearly, the ideal situation would be for her to have just rejected it however, in reality, I don't know how feasible that is living in the age of killer simps where women may (rightly or wrongly) be worried about being killed or physically attacked for outright rejecting a dude.

So for the purpose of my thread let's assume that the flower was taken, my questions to you are

FIRST QUESTION
1) Is it better that she told you as opposed to hiding it from you?:patrice:

2) Is it reasonable to suspect that she told you in order to poke the bear/ test you? :mjtf:

3) Would it be considered more respectful if she didn't say anything at all? :jbhmm:


SECOND QUESTION ASSUMING SHE TOLD YOU
1) Do you lay down the law by letting her know you won't tolerate her accepting gifts from another man? :dame:

2) Do you just play that shyt off like you barely heard what she even said on some, "oh, okay, that's nice babe" :ehh:

3) Other (explain)


Also, this is a serious relationship with the woman you love. Not a side piece, so NO. #HOH responses will not be applicable because that shyt only works when the woman is truly disposable to you (i.e you don't care whether she stays or goes which means you do not love her.)
 
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a) yes, I would rather she tell me, bc you hiding the flower would make me question your reason for doing so. I don’t have a temper so, she can’t say “I thought u would blow up”

b) I would think she would tell me bc she respects our relationship but who knows with the games women play these days.


c) no, I would consider it distasteful if she didn’t tell me.


2.

a) I would first ask her who gave it to her then ask her why she accepted it. •Regardless of her answer to these questions I would assume the guy felt comfortable enough with her to give her a flower.

b) no I wouldn’t play it off, and depending on if she was annoyed or short with her answers to my questions, I would investigate the situation further.

c) N/A

another point...

“a guy gave me a flower today:wub:”
“a guy gave me a flower today:scheme:”
“a guy gave me a flower today:facepalm:”
...etc

it can be said a lot of different ways
 
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nikka she don't love you cause if she did she wouldn't be all on her knees sucking that nikkas dikk, nikka she don't love you cause if she did she wouldn't be all on the phone telling him she want his kids, nikka that's his bytch
 
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If I brought home flowers from another man, my man woukd immediately question the events that led up to it.

Now it is possible that the man is just being nice, I had a patient who gave a rose to all the women on my floor. We knew him and that's just the type of person he is.

If I brought a whole bouquet from another man my hubz would hit me with the :camby: immediately .

I dont want a woman buying him stuff so why should he allow it? Certain circumstances like bdays, death, or everyone getting a bouquet, etc. is the exception
 
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