OK, the specific example that has caused me to make this post is round getting my feet rubbed. She has rubbed my feet twice in the whole relationship, she did it good with cocoa butter and every ting. Now when she was doing it, I was very appreciative - I always am when a woman takes care of her duties. She was impressed with how appreciative I was and then mentioned that she didn't mind as she used to do it for her ex regular and he had some nasty foot disease.
So one time we are having a disagreement and I mention some of the things that she did for my man that she don't do/don't do often enough for me. She at this point said she don't like the comparison and I'll get more of what I want by not mentioning this shyt, so I'm like cool. Now I've had one other footrub since and months have gone by, so I ask for a footrub this morning. She say's no, so I say something about my man getting a foot rub, now it's all blown up and she basically saying that do I want the same relationship as someone else including the bad parts. I don't want that, I just want as much as anyone else has had. Maybe I'm being a big baby about this, I don't know...
Could she have lied about her rubbing her ex'es feet so often? Do you have undesirable feet?
I wish she gave her ex head regurlarly, and you got it every once in a while. That way I could say that "you share that girl" and you should leave her. But, honestly, this situation is
status.
Maybe she doesn't like rubbing feet, breh. Maybe she only said that she rubbed her exes feet because she wanted to look like there was a reason she was so good at it. You ever been with a chick who talks mad shyt about videos games, only to find out that she only knows how to play Wii bowling, or some shyt? Maybe she did that to you. She might have just wanted to be cool for that moment. Maybe she's really not about that life.
That would make her a liar, tho...so.
I don't know what to say, breh. It's obviously not about the foot rubs with you. It's more about the principle, right? Dude got foot treatment often, and you don't. To me her excuse would piss me off more than the fact that she won't give me frequent foot rubs.
"So you want the same relationship as him? Good and the bad?
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I'm not a fan of holding things inside. If my girl does something I don't like, I tell her how I feel about it. Flat out. With that said, tell her how you feel. Tell her that her excuse is bullshyt, and that if she don't like giving you foot rubs just say it, instead of giving stupid ass excuses. At least get the truth out of her.
I dunno. I really don't know what to say.
