Am I the only one here with little to no interest in dating or marrying at all?

JadeB

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I feel so different that I have little interest in being in a relationship with anybody at all. Hell, even marriage at all. I just enjoy being a loner. Now that doesn't mean that I'm asexual :stopitslime: , since if you see my posts in JBO:whew: but the whole idea of being a romantic relationship is just ickey to me. Anyone else like me.
 

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Everybody wants somebody rather it be just dating or marriage.

However im also in the mindset I'm not going to go out here and just grab any tawana, laquita or kim just to have someone..

MOST of These women today regardless of age are self centered and concern about their lifestyle
 

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I enjoy the freedom of being single. Last girl I was dating had my weekends feeling like a prison. I wanted to do my own chill solo shyt but I'd spend my whole weekend with her. I am 28, I like the freedom but I also feel I need to think more serious about finding a long term partner.
 
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I feel so different that I have little interest in being in a relationship with anybody at all. Hell, even marriage at all. I just enjoy being a loner. Now that doesn't mean that I'm asexual :stopitslime: , since if you see my posts in JBO:whew: but the whole idea of being a romantic relationship is just ickey to me. Anyone else like me.
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OP, you just need to find a casual relationship with a business minded, career woman. A woman who just wants to get her feet wet from time to time without being bogged down with a man's insecurities. Find a drama free older woman, young girls nowadays are into some different shyt.
 

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Everybody wants somebody rather it be just dating or marriage.

However im also in the mindset I'm not going to go out here and just grab any tawana, laquita or kim just to have someone..

MOST of These women today regardless of age are self centered and concern about their lifestyle

This ^^^^ how I feel...
 
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I feel the same way op dating is a headache and honestly it’s best to stay to yourself if you aren’t that interested in dating. But it’s important to still make progress in your life, still focus on your goals and being prosperous maybe one day it’ll come to you if not at least you built yourself a stable life
 

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Sounds like you just have minimal to zero options. Make sure its not just you avoiding having to go out and talk to women.


The mind is powerful and can convince you of anything just to protect your feelings.

Like, even though theres millions of women out there to choose from that may be great for you... If ur terrified of talking to them or scared of rejection, your brain is gonna convince you to think...

“You know what? Even though im amazing, I just have no interest in dating ot marrying at all”
 

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I'm a big loner so I feel you OP. I've had zero interest in marriage dating back to my adolescence. I have an initial boost of energy to talk to and get at women but after a while it just gets depleted and interactions start feeling like a chore. I'll mess with a girl for a few days to a week and then be tired of calling, texting, and etc :ld:
 

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I dislike not being in a relationship. I just cheat in all of them but I always like to have my ride or die with me. I like the companionship and the devotion she has to me.
 
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