Am I missing out in Good Black Women because I dislike weaves?

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I ended a 9 year relationship to a a very great woman a few months ago:mjcry:

We met after a girlfriend of mine passed away and she was going through a divorce. Shes older with me with two kids but i wanted kids of my own and at her age it wasn't wise(47).

So now I'm back out here on the dating scene


But man its a mess and im not going to get into that right now. Ive never been a fan of heavy make up and weaves but they are in abundance out here and on these apps. I've met a lot of women so far but only clicked with one so far...but im struggling getting pass the weaves and heavy make up...am I wrong?
 

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It’s a good way to identify who is not for you without wasting each others’ time.

Same as any other things you’re not a fan of

If the heavy make up tranny contour style and weave isn’t for you then just skip

Chicks switch hairstyles often but there’s a certain style weave that makes you know :hubie:

There’s traits about us that some chicks are put off by too and dismiss us without giving us a chance

Just find what you’re looking for. Put yourself in the right environments for whatever it is.
 

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Without a doubt you are missing out on some quality black women if weaves and extensions are a deal breaker. It's culturally ingrained at this point. I see less blonde and Indian hair type weaves today from black women than I was seeing ten years ago. They tend to be textured appropriately and a lot of women look great with the right style. The box braids are going to destroy a lot of edges though, but I'd be okay with weaves so long as it looked tasteful and she actually took care of her real hair.
 

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Seeing as how good a person is isn’t dictated by they hair you def missing out.

I don’t care either way for weaves except when a chick be doing all types of colors & the hair has a smell.

Fortunately my girl don’t have that problem. Weave wise it’s either some wavy shyt to mid back or braids(shout out Jimmy buckets)

What’s your main issue with weaves OP? I wanna say just scoop you another 50-60 as that seems more your speed & shouldn’t have the heavy weave problem
 
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