At the end of the day, everyone wants hot people regardless of how toxic they may or may not be and this isn't exclusive to Black people either.
The "Pookies and Ray Rays" are rarely ugly as sin, short as hell, have zero clout, and have boring personalities. They usually have good looks and strong personalities that makes certain girls overlook their flaws.
Men are no different. "Bad Bytches" with good bodies and cute faces can act like c*nts and shyt test men but will still have different types of men simping for them for a chance at a hookup or a date.
But people misconstrue this into thinking that being a "thug" or a "bad bytch" alone gets you results. In reality, a nerdy man or woman who looks good, dresses nice, and has good social skills will do just as well if not better. And there's plenty of thugs who are ugly as hell and the only women they can attract are ugly women on drugs in the projects. And there's ugly women with nasty attitudes who no man wants to f*ck.
People overcomplicate the shyt and still get glued to their high school experiences even as grown adults. It's pretty sad and it's clear that people's experiences with the Black community is very limited.