After being in a relationship for 3+ years how often should you be sexing?

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I just had a convo with my boy after helping him move and he told me him and his wife (been together 6+ years) only had sex 3-4 time this year :wtf: He said its something they dont talk about they just let it be. Whats even more crazy is that he hasnt received a BJ in almost 2 years :damn:

I spoke to another friend and he told me him and his wife are going though almost the same thing :merchant: its not like they (the women) are with holding sex, they are just not having it.

Can a relationship be considered "healthy" with little to no sex? Brothers, do yall get tired of sexing your s/o? Ladies? I was only in one relationship my whole life (it was long term) and this never happened. Maybe it was because we were so young? Does age play a factor? I just cant imagine myself being in a sexless relationship/marriage brehs :snoop:
 

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5+ years here and we doing it 3-5x a week. 1st year was like 7-10x a week though:leostare:

Hit the gym and make sure she does too. As you get older though, there is less time. Career and school's a bytch.
 

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Depends on your spouse really. I've been in two long term relationships. After 4 years with the first one I was :ld: about sexing her bc I wasn't really attracted to her as a person. She was/is still physically attractive but I don't feel any sort of need towards her.

Current is going on five years and sex is still :steviej:.
 

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