If you meet a chick and you find out early on that she met up with an ex for breakfast, lunch,dinner but they have been broken up for a few years, either one of them still has hard solid feelings or they both do, so throw her in the bushes
A red flag that is often ignored
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That sucks man.
Live and learn, though.
Do you think when people go back to their exes, that there's an emotional connection still there? Or is it just the desire to be physical now and then?
the only way you'll know is if you ask. You could always turn it into a joke. "Look, are you crazy or into some weird shyt, cause I don't have time for all that...LOL...but not really"
i dont get it....the only way to deal with an ex is to irrationally hate them, and never speak to him or her again? I dont think its appropriate to chill with an ex once a new relationship has begun, but the idea of disqualifying someone just because they have a functional relationship with an ex is pretty childish.
well I figure it out, because it was the second guy that she ever loved and she said it was the only guy who ever broke her heart. He text her one day asking how she was and I knew right then that they must have kept in fairly consistent contact and that either one of them still loved each other even with all the years that passed
A lot of people don't do that, though.
Men will hook up with an ex just because they want to get the buns whenever they can.
For women it's probably a bit more complicated, because emotions for them are fleeting...but fleeting in the sense that they come and go. That's why some chics sleep with exes for several months or years, on some f-buddy ish.
LA Fisher
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My girl flames me because I don't hate my ex
Having a cordial relationship with a girl you used to fukk
Plus I think it shows maturity.
How invested in someone can you be, that this red flag will ever be ignored? You think she's having mimosas and hashbrowns with her ex to catch up? So they're gonna hug it out after the meal, split the bill down the middle, and walk away? Nah.
Think of it like a contract. She got signed to a 1 year deal but she's holding that player's option next year over your head. You messed up, bad signing. Let her walk.
Think of it like a contract. She got signed to a 1 year deal but she's holding that player's option next year over your head. You messed up, bad signing. Let her walk.
LA Fisher
Banned
Talking often is a no no in my opinion but if they occasionally bump into each other somewhere that's okay. But to be honest, sometimes people really do remain friends after breakups. It's all about respecting your current partner and having a balance though. A woman who respects you knows what she can pull and what she can't pull.
So because a woman meets a new guy she should immediately cease contact with all other men (non family) in her life? Nah. Now if you two are getting to the point where you want to be exclusive, that's the time you should mention how you feel about exes or whatnot and you'd both be responsible for placing boundaries on your associations with the opposite sex.
LoveDeluxe
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I swear, you guys are some of the most insecure folks I've ever seen.
