That's to the fault of men. There are a lot thirsty brehs who don't hardly get any cheeks. With so many of them lowering their standards, it lowers male value as a whole.
If you were a women with a phat booty getting dozens of messages per day wouldn't you ve picky? Social media has fukked the entire game up. If you're handsome/confident cold approaching may be your lane. Everyone else should just give up and buy some p*ssy.