A Father Is Mad Because His Sons Stepdad Took Him To The Barbershop For A Haircut

[lightskin jermaine]

The bio-father a lame ass nikka

 

[gldnone913]

Understandable but you got to play your cards more sensibly.

In court, it will just be showing aggression in front of the kids and poisoning their mind against their new partner.

Understandable?

 

[King Poetic]

Sorry

But if u a young man under 30 don’t be going out here dealing with women with kids for a serious relationship.. just have your turn and bounce

 

[Starman]

Marriages and relationships break down.

These "breakdowns" need to go back to being rare. And they would be if couples married before starting families and did everything in their power to make it work.

Flip the situation around and have the girlfriend of the dad braiding the daughter's hair. It's going to ruffle feathers because you're stepping into another person's nurturing role.

When families split, spaces are ineavitably created for other people. Your child is going to be in that man's house every day. And if he's a man worth a damn, he's going to take care of your child and give him the best advice he can. And it'll be up to you to get in where you fit in.

That should bother you. Make it work.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Dudes really out here calling other men Russel Wilson

Smh

 

[GunRanger]

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[TheSuperkick!]

Flip the situation around and have the girlfriend of the dad braiding the daughter's hair.

It's going to ruffle feathers because you're stepping into another person's nurturing role.

But wouldn't the dad be mad at the barber then?

At that point he's the one doing the nurturing.

 

[Tunez]

Single mothers, I'm available

 

[AyBrehHam Linkin]

he sounds like a bytch ass nikka

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Stay sharp, pleghboi!

He's saying you're dusty my guy.

Two weeks is the standard for the freshers

 

[Devilinurear]

This is kinda a bonding thing for a black man and son tho.
It shows a level of care.
that goes past anything said or written in a book.
Being influential in your child's hair care. Goes a long way whether thr child is male or female. Yet as a black man with a son.
That can be a huge point of connection between father and sin. That travels way beyond words. That I feel no other man should have with someone else's son.

Even if a guy was out of town.
Where you knew the barber. Let that man bring his son in for the first cut. To get his son acclimated to the barber.

As a black boy. Your father caring about your haircut is a big time thing. That no other man should be able to do.
without the approval, care and appearance of the father.

This is a huge cultural thing for a black man and his black son.

You do not get that back. Plus no one not even the mother should be able to do above the father.

It is serious culturally.
It is a lesson in identity.
as a black man and his black son.
Like it is tantamount.




Art Barr

If that is the case be a man and tell the other dude you got it and then take your son home after the cut. He an embarrassing scene in front of his child.

 

[The_Sheff]

It's gotta be a boundary thing. The step parent is in the wrong IMHO. The dad just acting an ass. Which is also dumb as hell but the feeling is valid.

That stepdad pick and choose when he wanna be the dad. That's obvious because instead of talking about it away from the kid, he calls the mom repeatedly. In a room full of men. He handled that like a ho.

Then had the nerve to bring up child support. Finances and visitation are separate issues.

The biological father should have kept his cool, tho. But this seems like it's ongoing so I see why dude snapped.

If he is the step dad that means him and the mom are married and the kid lives with them. Getting a hair cut is basic shyt. Unless there is a specific agreement that every other week or whatever the father gets visitation and a haircut is included then this is just some BS.

When you don't live with the kid you don't get to dictate every little thing that goes on unless it's part of a specific agreement. Sorry you lost out on that.

 

[bnew]

embarrassing his son making a scene like that when he could have discussed that outside the barbershop.

 

[The God Poster]

Understandable but you got to play your cards more sensibly.

In court, it will just be showing aggression in front of the kids and poisoning their mind against their new partner.

lol you about just a wild as ol boy

Straight unstable & need his ass beat. Crying about the mother disrespecting him but calling her out her name in front of the kid.

The type of parent who only wants the kid to make themselves look good. He a bum

 

[In The Zone '98]

He's saying you're dusty my guy.

Two weeks is the standard for the freshers

What have I done