52 year old Essence Atkins has been practicing abstinence for 4 years

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Essence Atkins Opens Up About Being Abstinent For 4 Years: ‘I Have Tremendous Clarity’​

During a recent visit to The Sherri Shepherd Show, the actress explained why she doesn’t plan to be intimate anytime soon.​

By EssenceUpdated November 1, 2024
Essence Atkins Opens Up About Being Abstinent For 4 Years: ‘I Have Tremendous Clarity’

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OP is something else.

:dead:

Has that headline and adds a random article that doesn't feature Atkins nor what she said. Good social experiment to show that thecoli doesn't read, I suppose.

Here's what she actually said.

Interviewer: Well, plenty of people aren’t getting asked out all the time. Everybody’s on the apps, so that’s not a marker of, I don’t know if what I’m doing is or isn’t working. I know many people who are just like, it’s hard to meet people out in the world now. They’re just utilizing these different resources. But I’m sure that what you’re looking for is coming your way soon.


Atkins: Amen. No, I believe it too. Sometimes I get a little impatient, like, okay, Jesus, this is taking way longer than I thought it was going to. But at the same time, I know that I’m not seeking a seat filler. I’m not just looking for somebody to spend time with because I actually enjoy my own company. I can vacation by myself. I have a lot of options when it comes to being able to design my day or my time the way that I want to. I also have a job that I really, really love, and I don’t feel like I need to escape from my life. It feels very pleasant and joyful. So in order for me to take time from that to spend time with someone, there’s got to be some sort of real blessing in it.

Interbiewer:I know you mentioned recently that you’re celibate, which a lot of people, more and more, are practicing and getting into. What has been the blessing of doing that?

Atkins:I feel like not having a bunch of entanglements really does give you a clarity and it helps you to really be able to see people. I’m no longer middle-aged; I need and want someone with whom I’m really friends. And so that becomes the paramount barometer for spending time together rather than intimacy. And so what I’m cultivating as I get to know people is a friendship. And either that friendship develops into something eventually or I just remain connected to someone. And there’s a really pleasant experience for both of us, whether we went out on one date or we went out on five dates. It was still a pleasant experience. And there’s not all of this sadness and hurt feelings and this loss. I don’t feel like anything is being taken from me because I’m not giving myself to anyone. I feel like I’m having experiences and exchanges rather than being depleted.

 

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Cliff notes?

Broads at 50 plus , don’t expect that nasty sex at all

She lays back legs up and just let you work in that dryness
It's not even the correct article. In the proper article, she says she still goes out on dates, but she let's people know she has an intention to marry. Sleeping around doesn't elevate her status and it interferes with her goal.
 
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