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[Somewhere For Me]

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[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

You are overthinking it. It's actually very simple. If you don't want to get married, don't.

If you BOTH do, go ahead and get married and get some of this.....



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[Somewhere For Me]

I'm sorry y'all, I had a moment.

 

[Rawtid]

I agree that "practicing" marriage without it being official is stupid but I think people just don't want to put in the work it takes once you get that official title.

It's like trying to turn a hobby into a business. It's fun when you're able to just make shyt on your own time, but you not only have to make shyt, but meet deadlines, determine pricing, generate invoices and shyt like that it's makes the hobby way more time consuming and just easier to do it in your spare time. That's how people treat relationships. They want it to be a hobby, something they enjoy and like doing but don't HAVE to do.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Life long commitment scares most people. They'd rather do married people stuff until its not enjoyable as it once was so they can move on to the next enjoyable situationship.

 

[Rawtid]

Life long commitment scares most people. They'd rather do married people stuff until its not enjoyable as it once was so they can move on to the next enjoyable situationship.

I'm really looking forward to it, but I wish I could know when all the pieces will fall together. Like at what age so I can decide what I need to do. I don't want to be 80 and getting married for the first time or miss out on the child birthing window

 

[The Mad Titan]

I'm really looking forward to it, but I wish I could know when all the pieces will fall together. Like at what age so I can decide what I need to do. I don't want to be 80 and getting married for the first time or miss out on the child birthing window

I hear that, I feel the same I have no doubt it will happen but hopefully its not before I'm actually at the same time if it does at least we know that the person we settle down with we are 100 percent confident in. Otherwise I'm sure we both could have been married or in a relationships by this point.

 

[360dagod]

Why do people who go against the norms of society get blasted??

You create whatever dynamic fits...

If you want to be with someone for 30 years and not marry...FINE

 

[Raheem95]

marriage aint a problem the problem is the people in it. a chick now will fukk you over and waste a good 5 or more years of your life, take your kids, get alimony, child support, the house and more. people use it to eat now

 

[wet landscapes]

you know, marriage is just what "normal people" do for various reasons
there are tons of alternative lifestyles

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I agree that "practicing" marriage without it being official is stupid but I think people just don't want to put in the work it takes once you get that official title.

It's like trying to turn a hobby into a business. It's fun when you're able to just make shyt on your own time, but you not only have to make shyt, but meet deadlines, determine pricing, generate invoices and shyt like that it's makes the hobby way more time consuming and just easier to do it in your spare time. That's how people treat relationships. They want it to be a hobby, something they enjoy and like doing but don't HAVE to do.

 

[Somewhere For Me]

Good responses.

 

[Dwolf]

People want the title of husband/wife without having the responsibilities that goes along with it.