marriage

What are your thoughts on prenups? And do(did) you have one for your marriage? If not and you got divorced do you regret not having one?

I guess I could look this up on Reddit but every question there is answered by "it's obviously logical, why not accept it!" so maybe I can get a Black opinion here European brehs/brehettes may have the most insight? When I grew up in the 90s/00s someone calling their SO "partner" almost always...

@Suge Shot Me So here is another data exercise---which counties have the highest and lowest marriage proportions for Black folks. There is an alternate way to calculate this using birth and census data rather than just raw census data. If you look at fertility, the proportion of kiddos born in...

KEY FINDINGS: In most countries, substantial numbers of children are reared by single parents; these proportions are conditioned but not determined by nonmarital childbearing. The regions where children are most likely to be reared by a married parent are Asia and the Middle East, regions where...

I literally open Tiktok like once a month unless I hear about something, but Gail Lewis, a Black woman on Tiktok shared the story about her cheating hubby and Black Tiktok rallied around her and found the side chick, etc. Shout out to the airline representative who basically put her husband on...

…when you factor these things in: https://www.goldbergjones-or.com/divorce/50-divorce-rate-lie/#:~:text=So%2C%20has%20the%20divorce%20rate,multiple%20times%20over%20the%20years...

I was out there this weekend from Friday morning until last night. Had a ball in y'all city :whew: Ate good (Amy Ruth's, A Taste of Seafood, Jackson Hole, Back Home Bakery:banderas:) saw comedy shows, hit up hella museums (MoMA and the Met might be my two favorite museums of all time) and even...

Spin from the Irv thread. I can’t answer this question. Would you encourage your 18/20 YO daughter to be with a 40YO man? Why or why not? Would you be ok with your 23YO daughter/sister “dating” a man as old and flabby as Irv? I’m genuinely curious.

Latest numbers from the US Census and the Department of education for 2021 have come out and the news is surprisingly good for Black folks. On one front, the latest Census population estimates show that the number of Black men and women in the 25-29 age category (prime for dating and family...

When did you know your wife was the one? :jbhmm: Share some wisdom with the single/unmarried brehs here. :feedme:

Per this article I thought the coli preached get ‘em while they young?

One of the main things Blacks want to bring up to bring ourselves down is our marriage rates as compared to other races, particularly White folks. But the amount of White Men I encounter that are on their 2nd, 3rd, 4th+ marriage compared to Black men is astronomical. Doesn't constantly taking...

We were discussing the Nia Long/Ime scandal and she said "Hathaway, if you ever were to cheat on me, it would be tough for me to forgive you but I can't say I would definitely leave you. But if you ever were to cheat on me with a white woman, that's unforgivable and I'm leaving you and taking...

There is no benefit for a man to get married. I've been saying this for years. As a result, I've been called an "incel", "bitter" & a "woman hater". Why do people hate other people who think independently and do what's in THEIR best interest and not some woman's? Are the mad because they don't...

As I age deeper into my 30s (I'm 32), I understand more and more that this world, even those closest to you, dgaf how you feel. I went through the most traumatic, emotionally/psychologically altering experience of my life these last 2 years; so much so that I entered therapy. All through those...

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Love wins :win: shoutouts to unity Coli haters who type "gmb" "0 losses" come collect 3 Ls at once Breh really ended up with a cop one, get 2 free deal when it comes to women:banderas:

:jbhmm: Add the age that you “settled” & if you made good money or not.

discuss thoughts. choose better...