help me brehs

It's a hip-hop song by a female singer/rapper/group, most likely from the 90s It has a very distinctive background beat. It sounds like a cross between "The Watcher" by Dr Dre and "Family Affair" by Mary J Blige. Been trying to find it for years, would appreciate it

Call me a simp or a lame but I'm hurt brehs. Me and my girl were having some issues (always fighting, not communicationg well) but the sex was fantastic so it was always swept under the rug. I went through alot at the start of this month and ended up having a suicide attempt. She broke up with...