Now mind you lets look at the facts. Cyclops married cables mother Madlyane Pyror. She was a clone of Jean Grey but that those not matter he still married her and entered a committed relationship and had a child with her. As soon as he heard Jean Grey was alive though he packs up and leaves his wife and child in Alaska. 
Dude is gone for several weeks then mans up when Jean tells him to check on his family. This series of events leads to cable getting a Techno Organic Virus and Cyclops giving up his infant son left to chase after Jean.
Now on the other hand Damion Hellstrom father who I remind you is Satan was an active father in his son's life. Married his mother and did not leave her and on top of that trained his son in the use of his powers.
Dude is gone for several weeks then mans up when Jean tells him to check on his family. This series of events leads to cable getting a Techno Organic Virus and Cyclops giving up his infant son left to chase after Jean.Now on the other hand Damion Hellstrom father who I remind you is Satan was an active father in his son's life. Married his mother and did not leave her and on top of that trained his son in the use of his powers.