So I work in banking and a common trend I've noticed is a lot of the older men (40's,50's) have 'mistresses' I'm not talking about just any old side chick, I mean my boss bought some random 25 year old chick a fukking 1 million pound apartment 
and they 'love' each other. He see's her as his legit 'mistress' aka 2nd wife.
He bought her a big ass apartment, is paying her ISA (I think in the US it's called IRA) and has taken her on like a wife or in the way I'd expect a man to look after his wife, her health care, everything and he gives her racks on racks every month
I've noticed this common pattern that these old dudes have these young women they claim are their 'girlfriends' and their 'mistresses' and they proceed to spend thousands and thousands kitting said person out and building a 2nd life with the chick ?!
WTF is the motivation for this ?!
If they want sex on tap can't they just hire a hooker or get a booty call or something? what is the need for all this tricking on the girl and giving her so much money ? Wouldn't a hooker be more efficient than all this ? Especially if they know that wifey can't find out
And what exactly is a mistress? my boss said it's different and he 'loves her' and he has a separate life with her
well then why can't he leave his wife ?
I just don't understand why anyone would put themselves through the drama of running 2 separate homes and having two separate women you are financially responsible for? There are easier ways to get sex no?
These dudes are spending alot of money on this shyt and legit see these girls as people they owe money and need to provide for
The other dude said he got a mistress AND he still bangs his wife 'i love my mistress, i am simply fond of my wife'
I've met a good number of men now in their 40's and 50's who are doing this same shyt in my office
What is the motivation of doing this ?!
If I was going to cheat wouldn't a simple no strings side piece or hooker be easier ?!
And if you've already got stress in your marriage why the hell would you take on a whole other woman's finances and responsibilities.
If getting caught was your problem wouldn't buying a chick a condo, giving her money every month and taking out money from your family home be an easier way to get caught
Is anyone familiar with this concept of man having this 'mistresses' aka 2nd wife? Is it common they're so expensive? and you take care of them like your main family...
I'm just not getting the point of all this
and they 'love' each other. He see's her as his legit 'mistress' aka 2nd wife.He bought her a big ass apartment, is paying her ISA (I think in the US it's called IRA) and has taken her on like a wife or in the way I'd expect a man to look after his wife, her health care, everything and he gives her racks on racks every month
I've noticed this common pattern that these old dudes have these young women they claim are their 'girlfriends' and their 'mistresses' and they proceed to spend thousands and thousands kitting said person out and building a 2nd life with the chick ?!
WTF is the motivation for this ?!
If they want sex on tap can't they just hire a hooker or get a booty call or something? what is the need for all this tricking on the girl and giving her so much money ? Wouldn't a hooker be more efficient than all this ? Especially if they know that wifey can't find out
And what exactly is a mistress? my boss said it's different and he 'loves her' and he has a separate life with her
well then why can't he leave his wife ?
I just don't understand why anyone would put themselves through the drama of running 2 separate homes and having two separate women you are financially responsible for? There are easier ways to get sex no?
These dudes are spending alot of money on this shyt and legit see these girls as people they owe money and need to provide for
The other dude said he got a mistress AND he still bangs his wife 'i love my mistress, i am simply fond of my wife'
I've met a good number of men now in their 40's and 50's who are doing this same shyt in my office
What is the motivation of doing this ?!
If I was going to cheat wouldn't a simple no strings side piece or hooker be easier ?!
And if you've already got stress in your marriage why the hell would you take on a whole other woman's finances and responsibilities.
If getting caught was your problem wouldn't buying a chick a condo, giving her money every month and taking out money from your family home be an easier way to get caught
Is anyone familiar with this concept of man having this 'mistresses' aka 2nd wife? Is it common they're so expensive? and you take care of them like your main family...
I'm just not getting the point of all this
