Serious question: Is there really any benefits in marriage for a MAN?

[Stuntone]

I'm serious, me and my girl have been together a while. She's a good loyal woman and home-keeper, our families were close before we were even born and it would make a lot of people happy to see us get married. My girl would love it, but beside making her and our families happy what's really in it for me?



I've heard things change in marriage and there's so kind of power shift in the relationship dynamic. Like women know you can't just leave anymore w/o major penalties. That alone is POWER. And power corrupts absolutely, power can turn even my sweet innocent chick like mine into a tyrant.


Once again I ask, what's in it for the man non-sentimentally?

 

[ByAnyMeans]

In for the ensuing comedy.

 

[Critical Distance]

marriage is a social construct.

stop looking for obligate or natural benefits within it.

 

[Treblemaka]

If your lady isnt a bum its a good way to unite finances and build wealth.

It helps a create structure for your family and children.

Save money on healthcare and benefits.

Its a good statement of a lifelong bond.

#MarriedGang

 

[scarlxrd]

Guilt free vagina for the religious brehs.

 

[Black Ball]

Depends what you care about and value. Do you want kids and desire to be a father? Wealth building if you're middle class.

If you don't care about kids at all and you got a girl that will allow you to have her and not marry her, then don't do it.

 

[Lvrd]

What's in it is you having a good chick by your side if u married the right chick...I'm a young dude i have a girl good good girl by myside and i cant wait to marry her. But before i met her it was hard to find a good chick out here forreal..these chicks nowadays aren't scared of the world hoe they fukking hella dudes, playing dudes without a care..and don't get me started on these friend zone shyt these girls do smh...be thankful u got a good woman man your blessed..

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Talk about marriage as if it is a 401k plan brehz...

Marriage is what you make it man. How many times do people have to say that shyt on here?

If you aren't about shyt, your marriage isn't going to be shyt either. Same goes forthose of you on a personal level in a relationships. If you aren't shyt

then your woman probably wont be either...

Small rule of thumb, every day since she was 13, your woman was offered dikk. She is with you

because that is as good as it will get for her. A little word we like to use called settling. So, if she

is no good, and she settled, then tell me exactly what does that make you?

Get good women, have great marriages.

 

[Black Ball]

Guilt free vagina for the religious brehs.

This is why I got married. I really love the Lord though, so don't mind me brehs. It's been a hard road at times, but it's worked out.

 

[jdubnyce]

Maybe if the man is marrying into money (no prenup)

 

[scarlxrd]

This is why I got married. I really love the Lord though, so don't mind me brehs. It's been a hard road at times, but it's worked out.

You, me, a lot of brehs at least sped up the process because of it.

 

[One]

Talk about marriage as if it is a 401k plan brehz...

You say this as if you shouldn't. A marriage theoretically lasts longer than a 401k and subsequently affects housing, taxation, income and bank accounts. The phrase "marriage is a business agreement" isn't just an empty platitude.

 

[Matt504]

what's in it for you?

Making your woman happy should be enough incentive. If marriage is something that would make her happier, go for it, you know all the risks and doing it anyway would prove how selfless you are.

 

[010101]

if you marry her how will you know if she really loves you or not¿
no cuffs and if she stays and builds it'll be of her own will
marriage corrupts true love

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[Henri Christophe]

what's in it for you?

Making your woman happy should be enough incentive. If marriage is something that would make her happier, go for it, you know all the risks and doing it anyway would prove how selfless you are.