Let's Discuss: Between 40-60% of Black Women have been Sexually Abused before the Age of 18

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Long read, but very informative. Let's discuss. Especially poignant parts bolded.
According to an ongoing study conducted by Black Women’s Blueprint, sixty percent of Black girls have experienced sexual abuse before the age of 18. More than 300 Black women nationwide participated in the research project. A similar study conducted by The Black Women’s Health Imperative seven years ago found the rate of sexual assault was approximately 40%.
The pervasive nature of this trauma could translate into an increased risk for Black women and girls to experience depression, PTSD and addiction, common symptoms experienced by many survivors of rape.

The Department of Justice estimates that for every white woman that reports her rape, at least 5 white women do not report theirs; and yet, for every African-American woman that reports her rape, at least 15 African-American women do not report theirs.


There are many reasons why Black women may choose not to report incidences of sexual assault. Survivors of all races often fear that they will not be believed or will be blamed for their attack, but Black women face unique challenges.

Historically, law enforcement has been used to control African-American communities through brutality and racial profiling. It may be difficult for a Black woman to seek help if she feels it could be at the expense of African-American men or her community. The history of racial injustice (particularly the stereotype of the Black male as a sexual predator) and the need to protect her community from further attack might persuade a survivor to remain silent.

We need more research to fully understand the scope of violence against Black women and the barriers they face to receiving support services. This requires both the political will and funding to make their lives a priority. Unfortunately, due to a long history of systemic racism and classism in the United States, the violation of Black women’s bodies is often rendered invisible.

“No race, ethnic group, or economic class is spared from sexual violence or the myths and misinformation that complicate the healing process for survivors. But in addition to our higher victimization rate, African Americans are less likely to get the help we need to heal,” says Lori S. Robinson, author of I Will Survive: The African-American Guide to Healing From Sexual Assault and Abuse.

Robinson points out that in studies of Black women’s sexuality conducted by psychologist Dr. Gail Elizabeth Wyatt, half of the women who had experienced childhood sexual abuse never told anyone and less than 5 percent ever got counseling. “African-American women are raped at a higher rate than White women, and are less likely to report it. We have suffered in silence far too long,” she says.

The movement to end sexual violence in the lives of Black women in the U.S. is inextricably connected to the Civil Rights movement. We cannot effectively discuss the issue of sexual assault in Black communities without acknowledging the direct war that was waged against Black women through rape during slavery and the Jim Crow era.

We must also honor the legacy of anti-rape activism.

Although Rosa Parks is remembered as the NAACP organizer who sparked the 1955 bus boycott and helped give birth to the Civil Rights Movement, she was an anti-rape activist long before the boycott. “Decades before radical feminists in the Women’s Movement urged rape survivors to ‘speak out,’ African American women’s public protests galvanized local, national and even international outrage and sparked larger campaigns for racial justice and human dignity,” saysDr. Danielle L. McGuire, author of At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape and Resistance (A New History of the Civil Rights Movement from Rosa Parks to the Rise of Black Power).

Continuing this legacy of creative resistance, filmmaker and activist,Aishah Shahidah Simmons, speaks out on the issue of sexual violence. Her ground-breaking film, NO! The Rape Documentary was a part of her own healing process as a survivor of sexual assault.
 
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When I ask her about the relationship between activism and inner healing she says, “It’s mandatory. NO! saved my life. I have my own stories of child sexual abuse and rape. NO! was my cultural activism. In NO! the women’s stories were different, and yet similar to my own. Getting involved in this movement has healed me.”

In addition to her anti-rape activism, Simmons recommends the tools she uses on her healing journey, which include therapy with a licensed clinical psychologist (or a licensed social worker), Vipassana meditation and the Buddhist practice of loving-kindness “so you don’t become the very entity that you are trying to fight.” She also emphasizes the importance of community, “Find community that will not re-victimize you. Connect online to survivors who are doing this work. Faith communities are important, but they are not a substitution for therapy.”

Simmons acknowledges that African-American women face barriers to finding the healing resources they need. “Because of the history of racism and sexism in America, in many instances, you are already presumed guilty. It is assumed that we are always wanting, willing, and able. Sometimes women call the police and the police decide a rape didn’t occur because of their race. You wonder if you will you be treated with respect. If your community is held hostage by the police, how can you trust the police? Where do you go?

Through the filmmaking process, she discovered that racism played a significant role in survivors’ reactions to rape. “There was a level of trust with perpetrators because (as in the majority of all rape cases, regardless of race/ethnicity), the women I interviewed were raped by acquaintances. They would ask, ‘How do I come forward?’ because they were advocating against racism in their communities and didn’t want to send another Black man to jail. We are trained as women not to betray the Black race.”
“This country has a virulent history of racist violence perpetuated against Black Women, yet we have tried to protect Black men from racism. Like Black men, Black women have been horribly impacted by white supremacy. Yet, there is often not the same outcry in our communities when a Black woman is raped,” Simmons explains.


Dr. Charlotte Pierce-Baker, a featured interviewee in NO! and the author of Surviving the Silence: Black Women’s Stories of Rape, says in both her book and in the film that “We are taught that we are first Black, then women. Our families have taught us this, and society in its harsh racial lessons reinforces it. Black women have survived by keeping quiet not solely out of shame, but out of a need to preserve the race and its image. In our attempts to preserve racial pride, we Black women have sacrificed our own souls.”


When I ask Simmons about the unique challenges of Black LGBT individuals, she points out that if a queer-identified survivor shares their story they are often told, “’Oh that’s why you’re gay!’ Rather than provide healing to victim-survivors, that question pathologizes our sexuality. We can look at the global statistics of violence against women and know that if rape made women gay, most women would be gay! Also, if you are sexually assaulted in a same gender relationship, people have to confront stereotypes about who is a perpetrator. It’s a silencing mechanism and that becomes a deterrent to ending sexual violence.”

This is why Simmons is passionately devoted to eradicating sexual violence by addressing the intersections of race, gender, and sexuality in her work. Subtitled in Spanish, French, and Portuguese, NO! also examines how rape is used as a weapon of homophobia. We cannot effectively help survivors to heal or implement transformative violence prevention campaigns if we do not illuminate a whole spectrum discrimination issues, including racism, economic inequality, gender bias and heterosexist assumptions.

Through her powerful film, writing and activism, Aishah Shahidah Simmons reminds us that Black women’s bodies deserve to be honored and the work to end violence must begin with the most marginalized among us.

Black Women, Sexual Assault and the Art of Resistance
 
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Let's see who (male posters) shows up for random rep threads, but ignores this VERY important topic. It just highlights that they are in this peaceful section for dissension only.
 

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Simmons acknowledges that African-American women face barriers to finding the healing resources they need. “Because of the history of racism and sexism in America, in many instances, you are already presumed guilty. It is assumed that we are always wanting, willing, and able. Sometimes women call the police and the police decide a rape didn’t occur because of their race. You wonder if you will you be treated with respect. If your community is held hostage by the police, how can you trust the police? Where do you go?

Through the filmmaking process, she discovered that racism played a significant role in survivors’ reactions to rape. “There was a level of trust with perpetrators because (as in the majority of all rape cases, regardless of race/ethnicity), the women I interviewed were raped by acquaintances. They would ask, ‘How do I come forward?’ because they were advocating against racism in their communities and didn’t want to send another Black man to jail. We are trained as women not to betray the Black race.”
“This country has a virulent history of racist violence perpetuated against Black Women, yet we have tried to protect Black men from racism. Like Black men, Black women have been horribly impacted by white supremacy. Yet, there is often not the same outcry in our communities when a Black woman is raped,” Simmons explains.


This quote is especially hard hitting. How many times have we heard, "that black [bytch] sent a black man to jail"? I know I've heard it in real life, and many times online. Not online are black women not taken seriously by the racist police force, but along with the sense of guilt that most rape victims feel with reporting we have to deal with the thought of betraying our race when we seek the justice that we deserve.
 

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It's a huge problem and when you try to speak on it, a lot of men shut it down, some because they are guilty, some because they have family members that are guilty

Then many other bring up the deflection that it happens in other communities

You also have the many bytch nikkas that try to justify shyt saying bullshyt like a 12 year old should know better than to deal with a 25 year old, completely absolving that 25 year old adult
 

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60% of 300 is 180 that's not half of black women

there is suffering in silence type of thing going on amongst black women, idk why but i doubt it has anything to do with them being seen as traitor to the black race
we as black people are taught to stfu if something traumatic happens to us
 

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This quote is especially hard hitting. How many times have we heard, "that black [bytch] sent a black man to jail"? I know I've heard it in real life, and many times online. Not online are black women not taken seriously by the racist police force, but along with the sense of guilt that most rape victims feel with reporting we have to deal with the thought of betraying our race when we seek the justice that we deserve.

I've always been against any abuse towards women........and its not betraying anything, if you have to put a dude away that's put his hands on you. That's elementary....

On the flip side.....In my family....we won't be calling anything.....dude will be handled the right way....he better hope he caught by the pigs, before we get to him.............:ufdup:
 

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I have a couple of family members that were victims of abuse as children and I just found out about it a few years ago. One was from a family friend and the other was from another family member( found out about this one at the guy's funeral). Finding out about it actually helped me understand some of their behavior and it saddens me how their lives were affected by the actions of others. Not only were they never able to confront the people who did it or even able to talk about what happened to them, but their molesters were never punished. It really sickens me.
 

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We have a duty to protect children (male and female). The fact that this stat is so high is troubling. It's probably elevated for black male children as well. Access to help is a major issue. Black children are being "educated" in schools where they are being overly-punished and underestimated. That kind of environment doesn't breed trust for these children.Who are they supposed to turn to? In sexual abuse cases involving children especially the perpetrator is usually a relative or close family friend! That brings up the code of silence that seems to permeate many families as well. And on top of all of that people who are sexually abused often become abusers themselves. The issue is pervasive.
 

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Nothing you can do to prevent this since its usually someone close to them. Punishing it depends on providing an environment where victims can feel safe which is also tough to do.
 

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Usually when someone is sexually abused it is by someone that they know (family member, friend, neighbor, family friend) and etc. Additionally if the child is conditioned at a young age they do not know that they are being sexually abused. Most of the time they are scared into not speaking up.More parents need to speak to their children about what sexual abuse consist of when they are young so that they know that they are being abused. My 5 year old sister has been taught that she can always talk to any of us if someone does anything inappropriate to her. Children NEED to know this from a young age so that if anything happens to them they know that they have someone to turn to.
Going back to it being someone that the female knows a lot of family members are afraid to confront the person for whatever reasons. I remember seeing an article somewhere that a certain percentage of black children born in a certain year were by black teen moms and the fathers were adults (usually over 23). Sometimes the guardian turns the other way, because they feel as if that child is off their hands since they can be taken care of. When I was 13 I had a 15 year old friend who's boyfriend was 24. Her mom knew and did nothing about it. The man would pay for her to get her nails done, hair done, and paid for her tattoos. If you go to a lot of suburban/hood black communities it is not uncommon to see a black girl messing with a man that is 23+. The bad part about this is that as these women get older it mentally affects them because they start to think, "He should not have been talking to me like that", "Did he really care for me?".Another thing that is a touchy topic for some is that there are males in our community that believe that a rapist is a man who jumps on a woman and forces her to have sex. There is more that I could say, but I've typed too much already. Let me try to find that article.
 
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The tendency to victim blame is disgusting and is probably the biggest reason why a lot of people don't speak out when they're assaulted in some way. It's infuriating to see people go " whoa, don't presume this guy(or girl) to be guilty yet:whoa:" ( which is fair) and in the same breath say something like " well why did this person do such and such in the first place, they probably wanted it to happen:leostare:".
 

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The tendency to victim blame is disgusting and is probably the biggest reason why a lot of people don't speak out when they're assaulted in some way. It's infuriating to see people go " whoa, don't presume this guy(or girl) to be guilty yet:whoa:" ( which is fair) and in the same breath say something like " well why did this person do such and such in the first place, they probably wanted it to happen:leostare:".
:ohhh: How many times have we seen that happen? Damn, thinking about it is eye opening.
 

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The tendency to victim blame is disgusting and is probably the biggest reason why a lot of people don't speak out when they're assaulted in some way. It's infuriating to see people go " whoa, don't presume this guy(or girl) to be guilty yet:whoa:" ( which is fair) and in the same breath say something like " well why did this person do such and such in the first place, they probably wanted it to happen:leostare:".

Adults maybe but this isn't true for kids.
 
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