Ladies, Do Women Get Tired of Being Approached?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I was thinking about this the other day.
I always chat up females all the time out at stores or whatever and I never try to close the deal because in the back of my mind, I think women get tired of 30 dudes walking up to them EXCUSE ME BEAUTIFUL, HEY HOW YOU DOING,...

its like men are the paparazzi and we see how irritated celebrities get when they can't be out and about without somebody bothering them.

 

[Ello_Vee]

Yes. We do. Plus, some people are really introverts, so it is doubly hard for them to deal with it. They don't want to talk to friends and family that much, let alone strangers.
Considerate of you to take that into account.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Nope, bytches love attention. All that does is boost their ego and give them bragging rights to tell their friends and social media hoe much they get approached.

 

[Ello_Vee]

Nope, bytches love attention. All that does is boost their ego and give them bragging rights to tell their friends and social media hoe much they get approached.

He asked about ladies. Not b*tches.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

He asked about ladies. Not b*tches.

I'll give you that, but same principle. There's no way you can get tired of being approached when women want men to do all the courting

 

[Ello_Vee]

I'll give you that, but same principle. There's no way you can get tired of being approached when women want men to do all the courting

Not true when you already have a man and have to deflect the attention. When you are not nice enough about it, half those dudes call you a b*tch. What kind of shyt is that?

You would be mad if your girl was too nice/flirting with some random, but get mad when she isn't yours and says thanks, no thanks.

 

[EpicStoryTeller]

Not true when you already have a man and have to deflect the attention. When you are not nice enough about it, half those dudes call you a b*tch. What kind of shyt is that?

You would be mad if your girl was too nice/flirting with some random, but get mad when she isn't yours and says thanks, no thanks.

Women are flirts by nature and I assumed TC meant single women

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yes. We do. Plus, some people are really introverts, so it is doubly hard for them to deal with it. They don't want to talk to friends and family that much, let alone strangers.
Considerate of you to take that into account.

yep.
that's why I never get women.
I talk to women at McDonald's, clothing stores, etc and make them open up by laughing , smiling, talking like they knew me for years.
but after I get whatever item im there for I just leave. Never try to give/get a number. That's why I ain't getting no illnana
.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Nope, bytches love attention. All that does is boost their ego and give them bragging rights to tell their friends and social media hoe much they get approached.

you don't think they get that paparazzi feel?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Not true when you already have a man and have to deflect the attention. When you are not nice enough about it, half those dudes call you a b*tch. What kind of shyt is that?

You would be mad if your girl was too nice/flirting with some random, but get mad when she isn't yours and says thanks, no thanks.

that is a true double standard though

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Women are flirts by nature and I assumed TC meant single women

pretty much.
I didn't have taken women in mind

 

[Queen]

Yes it is annoying. It is even more annoying when a dude starts going off on you when you don't want to be bothered. Or when a guy grabs your arm because for some reason he feels entitled to touch you.

I don't have this problem as much as I used to because I am usually with my husband or kids. But before I was married, it was too much. I am an introvert. If I am shopping, then I came to shop. Not to be approached by 5 different guys who aren't even that polite. Keep your hands off me. And I don't feel like being screamed at because I don't want to smile at you or give you my number.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yes it is annoying. It is even more annoying when a dude starts going off on you when you don't want to be bothered. Or when a guy grabs your arm because for some reason he feels entitled to touch you.

I don't have this problem as much as I used to because I am usually with my husband or kids. But before I was married, it was too much. I am an introvert. If I am shopping, then I came to shop. Not to be approached by 5 different guys who aren't even that polite. Keep your hands off me. And I don't feel like being screamed at because I don't want to smile at you or give you my number.

I feel you.
but some brehs will say that if you're shopping that you should approach a woman that you find attractive

 

[Queen]

I feel you.
but some brehs will say that if you're shopping that you should approach a woman that you find attractive

If you have good intentions, and you can be polite and respectful, then you should. With being respectful comes the understanding that she may or may not want to talk to you.

I told the story on here of how my husband approached me so I can't say to never approach a woman. I am just saying that all that panting like a dog, and slick talk gets annoying as hell when it happens several times every time you go somewhere.

The fact that you are even considerate enough to think about this says a lot. So if you are talking to a woman and its going well, you shouldn't be afraid to ask for her number.

 

[miranda]

No, at this point i take it as a compliment, it makes me think I look cute that day. As long as they don't touch me, follow me, or scream at me it's fine. I hate being yelled at from cars or followed in cars, but the majority of men take rejection well. Adult menn 25+ dont really get defensive like young dudes, as long as alchohol isnt being served. Ive been dealing with it since 11 years old, it's just part of going outside to me.

Just if she says she's not intrested don't get all desp er ate and ask again just let it go