Is it unmanly to move to another state for your girlfriends job?

[onelastdeath]

graduating in 6 months. And My last girlfriend and I broke up, because she had a job opportunity in another state and I wasn't willing to do the long distance thing.

We been talking for the last few months again, she told me she still loved me last night and that she wanted to get back.

I have a couple of opportunities to consider after I graduate. 3 actually.

A job in Toronto for a non profit, a job in Seattle for another non profit, and a higher position for what i do now. Which doesn't dictate my location.


She has an amazing career, and she can't just up and leave because the job is that good.

The question is, would you consider moving to another state to be with the woman you love?

She told me that if she had to leave her job to be with me she would, but seeing that I have the means to move to her, I don't want to make her leave her dream job.

 

[XII]

@YaThreadIsDepressingInRetrospectB!

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

She's having your kid, so yeah you should move.

 

[Diondon]

nikka how much is she getting paid?
That's gotta be one hell of a job

 

[Stuntone]

Not if she's making 25% more than you. And if you can find a job making close to what you were.

 

[VFib]

Be with your family. All the best to you.

 

[Ness]

@YaThreadIsDepressingInRetrospectB!

 

[Gully Bull]

Move to be with a woman that kept a pregnancy from you when there wasn't even a job involed.. then move to "be" with her only to find your self jobless and homeless when she does find a good job and gets tired of supporting you through this dismal job market brehs

 

[JordanwiththeWiz]

@ bump of this trash ass thread

 

[Diondon]

wait..what?

 

[onelastdeath]

x

 

[PeridotPuss]

there was a mention for me here that disappeared @The II XX

 

[InDePickWest]

Why you care about what other men think of your life.

That's more unmanly than anything.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

@YaThreadIsDepressingInRetrospectB!

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

graduating in 6 months. And My last girlfriend and I broke up, because she had a job opportunity in another state and I wasn't willing to do the long distance thing.

We been talking for the last few months again, she told me she still loved me last night and that she wanted to get back.

I have a couple of opportunities to consider after I graduate. 3 actually.

A job in Toronto for a non profit, a job in Seattle for another non profit, and a higher position for what i do now. Which doesn't dictate my location.


She has an amazing career, and she can't just up and leave because the job is that good.

The question is, would you consider moving to another state to be with the woman you love?

She told me that if she had to leave her job to be with me she would, but seeing that I have the means to move to her, I don't want to make her leave her dream job.

Depends on the job...if its medical or legal or some elite shyt, do it.