I'm attracted to my co-worker and i have a fiance((UPDATE IN ORIGINAL))

[Goddess_Godiva]

So there is this guy, we work in an office setting together, we flirt.....hell we flirt alot sometimes with a sexual innuendo, he's fine as fucck, muscular build..younger than me & he turns me on just by the way he looks at me. I try to avoid him cause temptation is a bytch...... I think he's single but i am not sure.. He asked me to sit and have coffee with him on this saturday morning and i said yes.... But i have a Fiance............a live in Fiance at that, we have a child together... & my co-worker knows this.Jesus help me.... He looks like he can pick me up.... I have impure thoughts of him.......Am i a trollop?? We haven't fukked other than the thoughts in my mind.....i'm sure if i "keep getting coffee" with him things could get nasty but i feel like a cheater already....... Am i wrong to have these impure thoughts?? I need to back out on getting coffee with him but his fineness is stopping me. Go ahead call me out....call me tramp and a whore... This may help me....


What would you do if you were in this situation???

UPDATE:
Gottdam ya'll like the damn CIA around here. I'll come through with an update. Yes i'm f@cking him. I had to. The desire was way too strong. My fiance and I are no longer together. Not because of this incident but we had our issues prior to this and we decided to part ways at this point in our life. Once my ex and I parted ways it gave me the green light to do all my sinful pleasures with this young buck.

Now i can't say things have been spectacular , he isnt my man just a f@ck friend & we still work in the same building but i am in an office now and he is in a different department. The office hoes suspect something is going on with us and i'm trying to keep it hush hush. Mixing business with pleasure isn't a good idea and i've learned from this.

he has become too clingy & crazy like if he sees me talking to another man at work or pretty much anywhere he starts asking me the what & whys of why i'm talking to him. He says he is trying to get me pregnant. He is needy, he's delusional, he's jealous, he's clingy, but he is fine as hell and sex is amazing so he gets a pass. I don't want a relationship just a f@ck buddy. He wants more but he's young. I don't understand why he wants a relationship at his age. He's 23. I feel like he isn't ready mentally. He's successful and fine as hell. Go and explore , play around a bit yet he wants to be with one person and act like a husband and shyt.

So there you have it.

 

[Ricky Church]

Hoe.

what's your fiancee's #?

 

[Silkk]

Stop being a hoe & Think about your damn kid

 

[newworldafro]

You been here less than a week and you already telling us your co-worker about to put cream in your cup??




thecoli is therapy ..

Spoiler

or

 

[Blankthawtz]

for the 1 dude you're THINKING about fukkin....imagine the 10 bytches your fiance has ALREADY fukked....

 

[Goddess_Godiva]

You been here less than a week and you already telling us your co-worker about to put cream in your cup??




thecoli is therapy ..

Spoiler

or

Lol, i've been lurking for on coli for about a year now and i finallly decided to sign up... I've been apart of the coli for a while.

 

[newworldafro]

Lol, i've been lurking for on coli for about a year and i finallly decided to sign up... I've been apart of the coli for a while.

That was my next guess...







Y(H)O(E)LO ....

 

[Brofato]

You can think about having sex with a person all you want but it looks like you want more than that.

In my eyes, you're not doing shyt wrong til you start having an emotional affair or you fukk him. That "coffee" seems like a dangerous situation.

 

[ORDER_66]

for the 1 dude you're THINKING about fukkin....imagine the 10 bytches your fiance has ALREADY fukked....

 

[Azul]

He is looking at you like that n shyt cause he wants to smash. You're willing to ruin your relationship over some young co-worker dyck that would make things uncomfortable at your place of work anyway?













Smarten up Nas

 

[swimmingpools]

You sure you want to get married?

 

[Tunez]

Pure bullshyt

 

[Diondon]

To be honest, you'll probably fukk

 

[Goddess_Godiva]

You can think about having sex with a person all you want but it looks like you want more than that.

In my eyes, you're not doing shyt wrong til you start having an emotional affair or you fukk him. That "coffee" seems like a dangerous situation.

shyt! I know... The devil is lie.... I need to backout on that coffee....

 

[Gunshi]

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