"I took a major L getting married, I make 150k and I'm broke" - My bestfriend

[Stuntone]

Was talking to one of my best friends today. Met dude in 2007, we started in the IT field together making 40-50k. He was married then and I was ripping and running. We both have made good money since, he's had 2 kids, Ive been single for most part. So he's kind of lived vicariously thru me. I always send him pics of my chicks, cars and tell him stories. We both love cars. Had not saw my boy in about 5 years up until 2 weeks ago, when we hungout and had an AWESOME time. With him being married and living far away. Dude told me today....

"bruh you gave me life that day, I really needed that. . I'm not happy, i'm not living. We all were fed that be a good man, be a good family man BS, but never get married dude. If I would have known I was going to be making this type of money, I wouldve never got married. I took a major L getting married, I make 150k and I'm broke. Everything I do is for my family. Sacrifice after sacrifice, bill after bill. I make 150k and drive a compact car so my wife and kids can have it all. And they dont really appreciate me or my work and sacrifice. I have to beg my wife for sex and rarely get it. You going to be the same way if you get married."


I take this as a real wake up call. Dude always keep it real about how horrible marriage is, but today I heard what sounds like him giving up on it all. Kind of scared me str8.














I have a great girl, pretty, cooks and cleans, doesn't go out, stays home and do what I say for most part but......

GMB for Life!!!

 

[BigL187]

GMB 4 LYFE


0 losses

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

now that is ONE SIX FIGURE SIX CERT N1GGA I DON'T WANNA TRADE PLACES WIT

I Just deposited a 1,400 dollar check from my profit sharing plan today from the corporation i work for

if i was married: that joint account shared with the "wife" would have ate that stack....and it wouldn't have been for anything useful

i remember being engaged to some broad an anytime i got a bonus check or any stimulus of a 1,000 or better it was always spent...

never saved up.............

I THANK GOD THAT I AM SINGLE....AND I CAN FUKK RANDOMLY WITHOUT THE OBLIGATIONS OF HAVING TO SUPPORT SOMEBODY'S LIFESTYLE

 

[Critical Distance]

lol your second thread about marriage today, op.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Marry a broke female who cant contribute

or

dont understand what it is to sacrifice to have a "family", brehs..

 

[Stuntone]

now that is ONE SIX FIGURE SIX CERT N1GGA I DON'T WANNA TRADE PLACES WIT

Most people on here would call him stupid for making that much and still being broke. But in a big city, with kids and a wife that doesn't make much. That money goes fast. He was making like 50k, 10 years ago. Steadily working his way up and their bills were too I'm sure. So it's not hard to believe.

 

[Stuntone]

lol your second thread about marriage today, op.

And what faggit. want me to make a 3rd?

 

[southern.girl]

There are happy young, black & married folks that debunk GMB everyday. You can't expect positive results when you choose to view marriage in a negative light.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

There's nothing more depressing than seeing a dude who thought he was doing the right thing by getting married and having a family ----- come to the realization that it wasn't the RIGHT THING

Brotha could be traveling the world....dating beautiful women......eating world-class dishes.....while still saving hella money and retiring early....

Instead -- he's gonna be working until he's 60, probably be F&S and looking back on his adulthood wondering what could have been

 

[DrX]

There are happy young, black & married folks that debunk GMB everyday. You can't expect positive results when you choose to view marriage in a negative light.

Did u just make this up...?

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

There are happy young, black married females that know they have security for the rest of thier lives and the luxury of knowing that anytime HE pisses you off or doesn't do what he says..you can break him for even more paper and humuliate him....so they basically validate GMB everyday. You can't expect positive results when you are living an imbalanced life with a toxic female.

 

[The Refiner]

He also sounds hurt that nobody appreciates him and his sacrifices. It's tough man. Appreciation goes a long way.

 

[Imhotep]

On the other side of the specterum theres a 6Cert6Figz6SeriesBenz dude who has lived the "lifestyle" for years and years and woke up with nothing to show for it but regret. Probably looking at a family man like your friend and wishing he/she had settled down and started a home but is now too late

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Somebody made this thread a week ago.


Home dude got married twice, has a six figgie income.


Still broke from alimony and child sup.


And he about to get married again.



he 35.



All i can say is fukk him. he did this to himselves.




.

 

[southern.girl]

Did u just make this up...?

No, I did not.

You guys are way too young to be so bitter.