On the coli and in the '"Real World" I feel like Black teens as well as young Black adults (say 25 and under) are getting an unfair amount of the blame when it comes to the woes of the Black American community.
I know this may be unavoidable but I don't intend for this to be a divisive thread that puts young Blacks against older. I understand that if we are to succeed than we must come together for the sake of us all. This thread is meant as a bit of constructive criticism and a little food for thought.
Now with that being said.
Older Black Americans really seem to love criticizing younger Blacks over the superficial. Fashion choices, taste in music etc. Are dismissive of our political presence. Downplaying movements such as "hands up don't shoot" and "Black lives matter". as simple "twitter activism" even though there are plenty young folks on the streets rather than behind a keyboard and mouse.
Need I remind you that my generation was raised by yours? If you are unhappy with the direction young Blacks are taking our culture shouldn't the blame start with the person in the mirror? I mean the past generations thinks sitting down and speaking with their children is some sign of weakness. That savagely and I mean savagely brutalizing your child is an acceptable punishment for every little thing your kid does. And you wonder why my peers grow up "hoemotional" when they were never taught to deal with their issues without violence or violent language?
You know how many older Blacks are intentionally passing down self hate to their own lineage? Where did you think we learned to "c00n" from. White media is partially to blame but not 100%. How many of us heard an older Black person as a youth go on about "nikkas can't have nothing" or "can't take care of nothing" or "nikkas ain't shyt" or "can't be on time" etc. How many of hear that now? Or say that ourselves now?
Many older Blacks act like going to church and and being a devout believer actually accomplishes something for us as a group.
Surely others feel similar to me on this topic. My generation is not perfect but none are.
My generation wouldn't be where we are without the work of past generations but it's the present generations job to build on top of what the past did. So why not believe in us?
We're all in this together.
(I'm a little sick so hopeful my post makes sense)
I know this may be unavoidable but I don't intend for this to be a divisive thread that puts young Blacks against older. I understand that if we are to succeed than we must come together for the sake of us all. This thread is meant as a bit of constructive criticism and a little food for thought.
Now with that being said.
Older Black Americans really seem to love criticizing younger Blacks over the superficial. Fashion choices, taste in music etc. Are dismissive of our political presence. Downplaying movements such as "hands up don't shoot" and "Black lives matter". as simple "twitter activism" even though there are plenty young folks on the streets rather than behind a keyboard and mouse.
Need I remind you that my generation was raised by yours? If you are unhappy with the direction young Blacks are taking our culture shouldn't the blame start with the person in the mirror? I mean the past generations thinks sitting down and speaking with their children is some sign of weakness. That savagely and I mean savagely brutalizing your child is an acceptable punishment for every little thing your kid does. And you wonder why my peers grow up "hoemotional" when they were never taught to deal with their issues without violence or violent language?
You know how many older Blacks are intentionally passing down self hate to their own lineage? Where did you think we learned to "c00n" from. White media is partially to blame but not 100%. How many of us heard an older Black person as a youth go on about "nikkas can't have nothing" or "can't take care of nothing" or "nikkas ain't shyt" or "can't be on time" etc. How many of hear that now? Or say that ourselves now?
Many older Blacks act like going to church and and being a devout believer actually accomplishes something for us as a group.
Surely others feel similar to me on this topic. My generation is not perfect but none are.
My generation wouldn't be where we are without the work of past generations but it's the present generations job to build on top of what the past did. So why not believe in us?
We're all in this together.
(I'm a little sick so hopeful my post makes sense)