How Does One Recover From The Loss I Just Took?

[OPTiMO]

So i through a little function at my crib. Invited my ex-girl, we were trying to work things out in hope to getting back together. Plus a bunch of the homies and random bytches.

I drink hard and wild out, so I was done at a certian point. Pass out.


Come to find out, one of my friends hooked up with that ex bytch IN MY CRIB. I'm trying to rationalize this shyt, like whatever im a bigger person. I can do dirt and get that "payback", but I got priors, my people got priors. Do I brush this shyt off and chalk it up to the game, cut both of those grimy people off, or get back.. What yall think?

 

[sm0ke]

So i through a little function at my crib. Invited my ex-girl, we were trying to work things out in hope to getting back together. Plus a bunch of the homies and random bytches.

I drink hard and wild out, so I was done at a certian point. Pass out.


Come to find out, one of my friends hooked up with that ex bytch IN MY CRIB. I'm trying to rationalize this shyt, like whatever im a bigger person. I can do dirt and get that "payback", but I got priors, my people got priors. Do I brush this shyt off and chalk it up to the game, cut both of those grimy people off, or get back.. What yall think?

ouch.

i could almost feel your pain reading that. at least cut the girl off. probably your homie too, but you might want to talk to em both about what exactly went down before doing that. the girl however... no excuse.

 

[OPTiMO]

ouch.

i could almost feel your pain reading that. at least cut the girl off. probably your homie too, but you might want to talk to em both about what exactly went down before doing that. the girl however... no excuse.

yeah man i feel you. they're both cut off to me. i'm just really trying to be the bigger person and NOT get down to that level, though i know i can. I did spit some hot fenom at both of them though, so they know what it is. shyts too disrespectful though.

 

[ItsStillMurda]

cut them off. it's cheaper.

 

[Hersh]

if ur girl knew u were tryin to work it out--- fukk her

if ur friend knew u were tryin to work it out wit her--- fukk him
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quite simple my migger--

 

[OPTiMO]

and i dont want to go into detail, but i know for a fact that shyt went down. dude knows if i run into him its bad. as far as the chick, i'd been on and off with her for 2 years, so its bad aswell.

i see this as a good time to evaluate the mfucckas im associating myself with forreal. snakes are everywhere.

 

[The Jewnited States]

if ur girl knew u were tryin to work it out--- fukk her

if ur friend knew u were tryin to work it out wit her--- fukk him
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quite simple my migger--

YUP.

really ain't that hard bruh. it's gonna hurt your heart, but your head should make the decision quite easily.

 

[OPTiMO]

if ur girl knew u were tryin to work it out--- fukk her

if ur friend knew u were tryin to work it out wit her--- fukk him
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quite simple my migger--

do you go and put the beats on dude, attempt to fukk his chick?


do you go and have a female put the beats on the chick, attempt to fukk her cuzins?




or do you say fukk it, im the better person and let that shyt ride






thats what im trying to figure out

 

[OPTiMO]

YUP.

really ain't that hard bruh. it's gonna hurt your heart, but your head should make the decision quite easily.

i know exactly what you're saying. its more my pride that is killing me. like this shyt happened while i was passed out, in MY HOUSE. im trying to be smart, but apart of me just cant let that shyt ride without any sort of get back... figure i should be mature about it though

 

[Hersh]

let it ride my migger-- but whenever u c either party--- pay em no mind-- they dont exist to u anymore

 

[sm0ke]

do you go and put the beats on dude, attempt to fukk his chick?


do you go and have a female put the beats on the chick, attempt to fukk her cuzins?




or do you say fukk it, im the better person and let that shyt ride






thats what im trying to figure out

you don't have to retaliate at all. the best thing you can do is let them know what it is, cut them both off (both steps have been taken so far), and go about your life looking no worse for the wear. your homie will realize he fukked up when he sees that you're doing your thing and not even acknowledging his existence, unless he wasn't much of a friend in the first place. same goes for your ex, and she might try to apologize and get back with you. don't do that, obviously.

just don't sink to their level. you have priors? just get your shyt together and keep it together, stay on the straight and narrow. if your friends think you're a bytch for not retaliating, then cut them off, because they're immature and probably bad news anyways.

 

[The Jewnited States]

i know exactly what you're saying. its more my pride that is killing me. like this shyt happened while i was passed out, in MY HOUSE. im trying to be smart, but apart of me just cant let that shyt ride without any sort of get back... figure i should be mature about it though

first of all, you passed out, so don't take it so hard. it's not like he fukked her in front of ur face and u couldn't do nothing about it

secondly, if he was ur boy, and he KNEW it was your ex, then fukk him. in my books, it's just kinda fukked up to be smashing your boys exes UNLESS you're given the OK.

and thirdly, she seems mad disrespectful to do that. whether or not she knew, SHE KNEW IT WAS YOUR HOUSE

i say let it slide....but if you wanna give him a crack to the face or something then....

 

[Cole Cash]

the loss is only as effective as you make it out to be. it hurts, but retaliation will do nothing. if you fight him, you are fighting him over a piece of ass that obviously doesnt value you anymore. What are you fighting for..pride? whats pride when you are getting angry over what appears to be a ho willing to fukk your friends?

im not really mad at the dude, because she might have thrown it at him and he might have been in an awkward position, he might have been fukked up himself and said fukk it. No reaction at all is whats in order.

Now if this was the mother of your child, or your wife, we would be having a different conversation.

 

[OPTiMO]

let it ride my migger-- but whenever u c either party--- pay em no mind-- they dont exist to u anymore

yup. need to come thru with a bad, LOYAL one on my arm like

you don't have to retaliate at all. the best thing you can do is let them know what it is, cut them both off (both steps have been taken so far), and go about your life looking no worse for the wear. your homie will realize he fukked up when he sees that you're doing your thing and not even acknowledging his existence, unless he wasn't much of a friend in the first place. same goes for your ex, and she might try to apologize and get back with you. don't do that, obviously.

just don't sink to their level. you have priors? just get your shyt together and keep it together, stay on the straight and narrow. if your friends think you're a bytch for not retaliating, then cut them off, because they're immature and probably bad news anyways.

man i feel exactly what you're saying. i dont have any very, very serious priors, but i am in trouble with the law, which i wont want to extenuate. I've been evaluating the people i be around since this has happened, and they're really not that caliber of people i want to be around. Time to cut everyone off and get down to work. No more time wasted on grimy mfukkas.

first of all, you passed out, so don't take it so hard. it's not like he fukked her in front of ur face and u couldn't do nothing about it

secondly, if he was ur boy, and he KNEW it was your ex, then fukk him. in my books, it's just kinda fukked up to be smashing your boys exes UNLESS you're given the OK.

and thirdly, she seems mad disrespectful to do that. whether or not she knew, SHE KNEW IT WAS YOUR HOUSE

i say let it slide....but if you wanna give him a crack to the face or something then....

oh homie KNEW it was my ex man. dude was the homie for a minute, used to help that dude out financially when he needed it, always watched out for his chick when he wasn't there. Dudes nothing to me, i tried to take him under my wing. Thats where this disrespect is fukkin my up.

But me and this chick have been through hell and back. I told her i was willing to try to put shyt aside, then she goes and does me like this... Man, i wish i could put hands on em.

 

[OPTiMO]

the loss is only as effective as you make it out to be. it hurts, but retaliation will do nothing. if you fight him, you are fighting him over a piece of ass that obviously doesnt value you anymore. What are you fighting for..pride? whats pride when you are getting angry over what appears to be a ho willing to fukk your friends?

im not really mad at the dude, because she might have thrown it at him and he might have been in an awkward position, he might have been fukked up himself and said fukk it. No reaction at all is whats in order.

Now if this was the mother of your child, or your wife, we would be having a different conversation.

man this mfukker was my right hand man for a minute. he got a lady too. apparently when his lady left, she told my ex to watch dude and she was like "oh yeah i got him dont worry girl"... both these people need to get burried... ima let karma handle it, but god damn its tempting