How Do Dudes Stay W/ Girls Who Put On Mad Weight

[MaxPain]

And shes never had kids and yall both under 35

Especially if its in a year or less

I can kinda see it if ur urself


Or shes had ur kids


But if its neither of those, and ur not attracted to her.

Bush her, theres way too many options. Why stay with someone u not even attracted to and waste their time?


My boy just dumped his girl of 5 years cuz she started taking some meds & gained like 30 lbs and it all goes to her stomach and arms. Obviously thats not the only reason but it was one of the big ones. Shes 19 hes 23.

Im glad he did that rather than cheat

But why do people get so comfortable for situations that can come & go at any time (relationships)?

 

[DaKidFromNoWhere]

You answered it.
People get comfortable...

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Like you said they get comfortable.

Had a good woman like that who ballooned up on me after we moved in together.

Noped the eff outta that situation quick.

She lost like 20 lbs over the next 2 months (no appetite) and we got back together.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Im glad he did that rather than cheat

That's what cats need to do more often esp unmarried ones with no kids

 

[75 Others]

so she turned bbw why dump them

 

[MaxPain]

Like you said they get comfortable.

Had a good woman like that who ballooned up on me after we moved in together.

Noped the eff outta that situation quick.

She lost like 20 lbs over the next 2 months (no appetite) and we got back together.

I just realized a few yrs ago how much calories we consume without realizing


I quit drinking sodas at 16

Quit drinking alcohol for a whole 2016 lost like 10 lbs same workout routine and toned
up ALOT/dropped body fat %


We drink alot of our calories ....sodas juices starbucks ranch dressings and we think its harmless cuz its not a big mac

But that shyt adds up.

 

[K.Dot]

so she turned bbw why dump them

Yo this is one dope ass spin

 

[Rockstar Mom]

If she took meds for health reason, and weight gain was a side effect, that's actually a pretty shytty reason to dump someone

 

[MaxPain]

If she took meds for health reason, and weight gain was a side effect, that's actually a pretty shytty reason to dump someone

Hes not attracted to her

 

[Poitier]

If my girl put on a lot of weigh on in a short period of time, I'd ask if her mental health was good before pivoting to dumping her. Also, I would offer to go the gym, run and eat lean meals together.

Outside of comfort, it is possible to simply love a person so much that looks aren't a deal breaker and then you got stuff like finances and kids that keep folks together.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Hes not attracted to her

That just makes him a shytty person. Obliviously she had health issues. Or do we only love people when they're 100% healthy?

 

[Rockstar Mom]

If my man got sick and gained weight because of meds or a medical condition, I love him enough to suck it up and deal with it

Him gaining a crazy amount of weight over pure laziness is another story though.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

To me it's a sign of disrespect, same with the chicks who don't give head. You don't care enough about this relationship to try to stay fit and sexy.

 

[Taadow]

Sometimes we like to fatten up a skinny broad.

 

[Blessings]

I just realized a few yrs ago how much calories we consume without realizing


I quit drinking sodas at 16

Quit drinking alcohol for a whole 2016 lost like 10 lbs same workout routine and toned
up ALOT/dropped body fat %


We drink alot of our calories ....sodas juices starbucks ranch dressings and we think its harmless cuz its not a big mac

But that shyt adds up.

This....we drink a lot of weight
even fruit smoothies