fukk buddies catching feelings and goin' fukkin' psycho unappreciation thread

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Right now I'm outside in my truck, cold, with a wet coat on, no heat and I got an exam on kinematics in a few hours (I'm clinging on a C )

Here's the story on how I got to this point..........




So I'm at ol' girl's place and we kickin it. She's on lap, feedin' me a joint, life is good then......then it happens

Her: "My ex said he wants to get back together "

Me: "Oh word?"

Her: "Yeah, but I don't know; What do you feel about it"


Now before I continue, let's remember that first, I was / am blazed, secondly, before me and her started fukkin' at the beginning of last year, her ex had just proposed and she said no. He's 32, decent job and she's a student, 23, and after what just happened, she's probably psychotic. Back to the part where I fukk up

Clueless ass Me: "If you have any kind of feelings for him, just give him a chance this time and tell him to take things slow"



She hops off my lap, walked in her kitchen, comes back stands in front of the tv dead ass silent, then......

Her: "Man, you know what? Just get the fukk out"

Me: ......................

I tried to say something, but she wasn't tryna hear shyt, so I get up and walk towards the door, still high, then outta nowhere, her big ass philosophy book flies past my head goin' bout 80 mph.... then I sobered up

I was in such a rush to get fukk out that I forgot to grab my coat and ma damn keys

I texted her from out here that I needed my shyt, so she went upstairs, opened the window, and threw my coat out on the cold wet ass ground into a puddle but she still has the keys to my truck.........that was 2 hours ago brehs and I'm still out here.


The only reason I'm not outside in the cold ass rain was because I used the keypad to unlock the doors

Now I could be an idiot and start tryna kick the door in, cussin' , and actin' like an emotional ass nikka, but:

- this is a nice white neighborhood
- there's a white sorority house across the street, full of white girls
- this is South Caclina with South Caclina police
-I'm an unarmed nikka that smells like a weed factory
- This bytch is so pissed off right now that I truly think she'd tell the police that she doesn't know me and I'm trying to rape her or some shyt




Edit: I started writing this around 5 am but my hands were shaking because of the cold and making a thread on TheColi on an cellphone that keeps auto correcting my shyt got annoying, so I said fukk it. My homie finally woke up, answered my call, and now I'm at his crib because that loon still has my keys. She's actin' like I don't know she has classes today

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

What's even funnier was that this same thing happened to me a few months ago with another chick before Christmas break, but it was much less dramatic. She asked me how I felt about her, I was honest and said " I liked you, alot" but that obviously wasn't enough for her, either.

Both of these situations started off the same way: We kick it as friends, start fukkin', "I'm not looking for a relationship" "me either", then boom. Changing your mind and wanting a relationship is fine, but don't try to make it like out like you were being played and shyt when you knew what it was


This chick has me confused. She obviously wants relationship, she has a nikka in her ex that wants one too, so why doesn't she move on with him?!?!



Might as well started lying, and treating broads like shyt while we're just "friends" so they don't expect anything from me

 

[Dank Hill]

Don't sound like she wanted to be a cutty from the start.

Sounds like she wanted something serious from you from the beginning. Probably thinking she could change your mind about her or some shyt.

You did the right thing by telling her to get back with her nikka (considering she might still be down to cut on the side) , and as soon as she started catching feeling it was time to collect you shyt and get with no more contact from that point on.

Sucks that she got your shyt tho. Hope it works out for you.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Don't sound like she wanted to be a cutty from the start.

Sounds like she wanted something serious from you from the beginning. Probably thinking she could change your mind about her or some shyt.

You did the right thing by telling her to get back with her nikka (considering she might still be down to cut on the side) , and as soon as she started catching feeling it was time to collect you shyt and get with no more contact from that point on.

Sucks that she got your shyt tho. Hope it works out for you.

We were always cool tho, so it was kinda hard to read. I don't know why I would have to play a sort of guessing game tho, she was always blunt and direct about everything else, so just say something instead of throwing books at people's heads and shyt

 

[Serious]

either way sounds like she was trying get a reaction out of you; probably hoping, you'd say some lovey dovey simp shyt, thus furthering your commitment to her...but it sounds like you did the right thing...

 

[mortuus est]

get your shyt and chuck that bytch in the bushes man, you dont need this stress

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

either way sounds like she was trying get a reaction out of you; probably hoping, you'd say some lovey dovey simp shyt, thus furthering your commitment to her...but it sounds like you did the right thing...

I was so cold and wet sitting in dat truck a few hours ago that I almost told her that I loved her and I was trying to downplay my hurt, but she's intelligent enough to read through that bullshyt, which is why I don't know why, after what she knows about me, would think I wanted a relationship like that

The only reason I clicked on a few levels with these girls was because I thought we had the same ideas, expectations (not expecting much) and we were open and drama-fee, guess not.

I can't stand looking for new steady supplies of gine

 

[Serious]

I was so cold and wet sitting in dat truck a few hours ago that I almost told her that I loved her and I was trying to downplay my hurt, but she's intelligent enough to read through that bullshyt, which is why I don't know why, after what she knows about me, would think I wanted a relationship like that

The only reason I clicked on a few levels with these girls was because I thought we had the same ideas, expectations (not expecting much) and we were open and drama-fee, guess not.

I can't stand looking for new steady supplies of gine

See what I'm saying. Any decent looking chick gets approached by new cats / exes daily and engages in conversations discretely, the fact she brings up a scenario involving her and an ex is telling....


Not to mention, here's the real kicker, she's 23, not 19, that being cool friends with benefits, starts to phase out the older she gets, especially as some of her female peers start getting wifed up / engaged; thus why she was testing to see where you and her stood...

Moral of the story don't let her game you up, into doing something you're not comfortable with.

 

[KeysT]

Stop messing with bird brain chicks.. She is 23, she should be able to use her words instead of resorting to violence.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

See what I'm saying. Any decent looking chick gets approached by new cats / exes daily and engage in conversations discretely, the fact she brings up a scenario involving her and an ex is telling....


Not to mention, here's the real kicker, she's 23, not 19, that being cool friends with benefits is starts to phase out the older she gets, especially as some of her female peers start getting wifed up / engaged...

I was high, horny and barely paying attention until she got up after I said what I said

I'm not dumb enough to think that this type of shyt lasts forever either, but as an adult, you should be able to end it in the same fashion you carried on with it; By being open and honest.

In both situations, I don't get how there needs to be a bad guy (me) just because they changed their expectations without saying anything to stop what was going on, it makes no sense at all, but whatever, I just want my keys back so I can move on


This single life ain't no joke, at least not the way I'm doing it. I might need to start lying and do the sidechick / main chick shyt. Better yet, might as well go celibate and live in an ashram or a Buddhist temple than to keep dealing with this shyt.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

 

[Elle Driver]

I mean you knew she was looney from the jump.

 

[Mr. Negative]

I'm sorry, breh. Women seldom wanna just chill out like that. Not sitting in your lap and acting all cozy with the drugs unless she being shared or she taking you seriously. But never if she just single.

Actually, I don't know that.

But I know the way you presented all this is off the charts.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I mean you knew she was looney from the jump.

No, I didn't, that's what makes it so wild. I down to one now, Elle


But speaking of loons: Where have you been ?