"By Approaching, You Separate Yourself From 99.9% Of the Other Men On the Planet"

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I know the coli is largely AGAINST the cold approach method but ive been doing it with consistency the past 3-4 years and have gotten great results. Overcoming that fear of rejection is a must in every man's life.
There's no better feelin than getn domed up from a chick that you simply had the courage to say "hi" to. :banderas:
Yall can continue to be terrified of approaching these women but dudes like me gon continue to:eat:

And i PROMISE yall that the vast majority of women regardless of looks are NOT being approached in real life as much as you think.


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cold approaching is fine, its just the avg guy is afraid of rejection....i think everyman should work in sales because itll him them with rejection....but it kinda fukk u u mentally, because u see ppl as #s and not humans...either way youll get some box
 

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I would sooner risk rejection than not attempt to say anything, especially if I was uncertain we'd meet again.
A lot of guys fear rejection which is understandable. Unless you're a sociopath, rejection will sting initially.
I promise you get over it, though, especially when the next one gives you that

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Ate really good off those elevator rides in undergrad. :ahh:
 

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I did that shyt once back in high school. That shyt fukked me up a little so I said fukk it this ain't for me.

I went up to this chick asked her what her name is and bytch responded with "I don't have a name" I'm like
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"Huh? How could you not have a name?" She said "I don't know :troll: " It didn't even register to me until a few moments later that I was getting rejected. :mjcry: Before I could even come up with a response she had walked into the girls bathroom and had me standing in the hallway looking like a dumbass.

Damn latinas. :mjcry:

She's a single mom now though so fukk her. :manny:
 
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Cold approach thread?:ehh:

I don't do it unless the path is laid out first. (eye contact, or even better a smile), I've witnessed some epic fails.

Sometimes I wash out myself, cold approached one Indian in the computer lab.:francis:

Her: "I'm not interested, OK?!":pacspit::mjpls:

:dwillhuh: Me: "Oh.":merchant:

I went back to my own computer work.:dame:
 

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Cold approach thread?:ehh:

I don't do it unless the path is laid out first. (eye contact, or even better a smile), I've witnessed some epic fails.

Sometimes I wash out myself, cold approached one Indian in the computer lab.:francis:

Her: "I'm not interested, OK?!":pacspit::mjpls:

:dwillhuh: Me: "Oh.":merchant:

I went back to my own computer work.:dame:
why not do it tho...?
 

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I did that shyt once back in high school. That shyt fukked me up a little so I said fukk it this ain't for me.

I went up to this chick asked her what her name is and bytch responded with "I don't have a name" I'm like
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"Huh? How could you not have a name?" She said "I don't know :troll: " It didn't even register to me until a few moments later that I was getting rejected. :mjcry: Before I could even come up with a response she had walked into the girls bathroom and had me standing in the hallway looking like a dumbass.

Damn latinas. :mjcry:

She's a single mom now though so fukk her. :manny:
:damn:My god, the "I don't have a name" rejection:dead:I've gotten that one. It's actually one of the better ones because it lets you know right away

that A: she isn't interested and B: She was disrespectful to you right from jump. fukk her.

Also, cold approaches are purely for fun, cause I have gotten more "friends" out of cold approaches than dates. If I wanted female friends, I would get the 5's

that hang out in places I go in my freetime.
 
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