Anyone else have to be very cautious about who you love, bcuz you'd KILL them if they DISHONOR you?

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I know a lot of you will say Killing someone over cheating or disrespect is overboard. It's deeper than that. Most of you were raised by women with no concept of honor. Raised with no real code or standards. Scheming and scamming to get by. No honor or values. I was raised by a real man with honor and value.

I don't know what it is or maybe it's being raised in Louisiana (Haitian bloodline) or seeing so much violence growing up, having friends who moms was killed for messing around. But i've been extremely picky about who I date seriously and love. Even my closest family, I'd give my life for them. But personally and with most, anyone you'd give your life for, you'd take there lives too if they were to humiliate you and betray your years of trust and love for them. Thank God i've been lucky to have the family I have and the women I've dated.

As far as women, it's very hard for me to trust them. Especially nowadays. If I was to find out my girl is texting a dude, it's probably over. I feel like if you sneak and talk, youll sneak and meet up and so on. So you might as well say fukk it. Bcuz if it gets to so on, she's going to be saying so long..... I can't take risk with these women bcuz I know I'll kill them if it gets there.

You can't tell someone how to react to anything. We live in a society were theyre teaching men, to turn the cheek, but the bigger man by not reacting. Fukk that. I wish we could go back to good old azzwhooping for violations. That's why you got kids talking shyt to adults with no repercussions.
 

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I don't know about literally killing somebody over it but I get the point. Yeah I do consider myself cautious about who I love because the more a person gets their hopes up and the more faith they place in someone the more it hurts if they disappoint. Most people are too unpredictable and with this ghosting culture existing I try not to get too emotionally attached too soon.
 

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Starting to realize killing for someone or risking your life for someone is unnecessary especially if you know that person wouldn't do the same for you, it just.... Throws me off.
 

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Unless your physical person is in danger, there is no reason for you to take someone else's life. Attributing said action to the fact someone hurt or betrayed you is not an excuse either.

OP, your words seem to emit a sense of needing to be secure and control those around you. It is not a judgment; it's an observation. It is something I recognize in myself as well, especially after becoming a mother. I have a lot of anger now:mjcry:

The anger is because, deep down, I KNOW I can't control everything that happens to my kids, for example, because they are their own people. I know as much as I love them, I can't protect them from everything and I can't protect myself from them, either. That makes me feel angry because I'm really scared of being vunerable. I dont want to ever feel something so intensely, but that's what happens when you are open to someone.

If my kids fukk around and get hurt, I'm not so much angry because I feel it could have been prevented but I'm hurt because now I have to experience the pain of watching them hurt. It's a sense of helplessness and it feels awful.

But this is life. Anytime you open your heart to love, you stand to gain as much pleasure as pain, sir. You learn from it all, but trying to control it all ain't the way, and that isn't your call to make. Again, unless someone is threatening you or those you love, how can you rationalize killing him/her because of how YOU are personally experiencing that situation? That says more about you than the person you're angry with.

Don't know you OP, but I'm saying this out of a good place. Hopen you don't knock off anyone:merchant:
 
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